First kiss

Hi! im 17, im a lesbian, im fine with this, and i live in England i went to my friends party last night, got drunk, and kissed a girl. Im on good terms with her but i dont know her that well and there is nothing romantic between us. I was sober enough to know what was happening and i fully consented to it, but i probably wouldn't have done so if i had been fully sober. im usually very shy. Idk how kissing supposed to work but it was not all that great. She went straight in with the tongue and it was fast and i wasnt super sure what do do. i felt her teeth at a couple of points. all around it lasted about fifteen seconds and was not a particularly enjoyable experience. it just felt like we were licking each others tongues. Afterwards she said i wasnt a good kisser but she asked to make out like four more times so im getting mixed signals. all in all not sure how to feel. i dont know if its cause im a bad kisser or if she was a bad kisser or if im just not cut out for this.

Hi Millie! What about living in England. Are you fine with that? I wasn't. I "exscaped" to Spain. What's it like now? Are the roads still crumbling, even in posh villages? And ow are the colleges doing and looking? "i went to my friends party last night, got drunk, and kissed a girl." Right on schedule for 17, then. :) "Im on good terms with her but i dont know her that well and there is nothing romantic between us. I was sober enough to know what was happening and i fully consented to it, but i probably wouldn't have done so if i had been fully sober. im usually very shy." Shy is a very attractive quality, actually. Just saying. "Idk how kissing supposed to work but it was not all that great. She went straight in with the tongue" Ugh - too soon! "and it was fast and i wasnt super sure what do do." Add your dirty socks? ;D (- washing-machine, it's known as.) "i felt her teeth at a couple of points. all around it lasted about fifteen seconds and was not a particularly enjoyable experience. it just felt like we were licking each others tongues. Afterwards she said i wasnt a good kisser but she asked to make out like four more times so im getting mixed signals." I was going to say up there - why did you assume she knew what she was doing? Can't say I like the fact she blamed it on you, however. Especially as it's not possible because it's teamwork? What made her say that? "all in all not sure how to feel. i dont know if its cause im a bad kisser or if she was a bad kisser or if im just not cut out for this." No chemistry. End Of. Boooooze....makes you loooooose. And not just your senses. Be shy. At least then you'll get with someone actually compatible with you? Why do you want a pushy one? I know you were drunk but, you weren't brain-dead so...why do you think you want a pushy one (and a blame-shifter at that)?