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S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling lonely and unwanted
CREATED: Mar 16 2024 at 21:09 by V6079

How do people start to feel better about themselves? I cannot help but find myself repulsive. I just don't see how a woman would hold any desire for me. I get told I need to be more confident and not be mean to myself but I see it as the truth about myself. I find myself in these cycles of torment. I don't wish to burden people but I just don't know what to do. I've not ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI cannot imagine a woman wanting to be in a relationship with me
CREATED: Mar 16 2024 at 20:43 by V6079

I have been alone for years now. But I would really like to share a bond with a lady. However I have so much distain and self-loathing I cannot imagine anyone wanting to be with me. I'll see a lady who I really like and all I can think is that it would be terrible for her and I would ruin her life. I find myself caught in these cycles and despiring. I have tried to destroy these elem...

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryNothing to do outside of employment and I look like a loser to people
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 18 2024 at 22:53 by icanbuymyselfflowers RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Mar 19 2024 at 00:33

I am a 28 year old woman thats unemployed and i sit at home all day wondering what to do for activities, whether to improve my resume skills or go workout. I like books and ive always been told to follow my passion which is helping autistic folks or other people with disabilities. I also like art, but schooling seems to be far reach right now. I like pets as well and baking. I have some suppor...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI think my bf sexually harassed me. Should I leave?
[12 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 6 2024 at 22:32 by macy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 18 2024 at 04:07

My bf and I have been dating since we were in our early teens, however at one point we had broken up for a 1-2 years. Before we broke up, my bf used to touch my legs a bit. I was fine with it on and off I think (I don’t really remember) but I felt really ashamed doing it, so it made me feel a tiny bit anxious. He used to stop if I said no, but he would mope a bit. Flashforward now and we’re...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryJealous of best friend
[89 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2024 at 23:37 by Wt51 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / nav LAST POST: Mar 17 2024 at 19:08

Ok so im 18 years old and recently my best friend- or my only friend moved away. I stayed at our hometown with my parents even though i wanted to leave but we couldn't afford that. I was initially jealous because of that but i got over it quickly. Anyways, my main concern right now is that i feel like i am missing out on life. I go to uni but i havent really met anyone i like. I have people ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to discuss drunken infidelity with my partner?
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 17 2024 at 03:47 by whoopsie RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Mar 17 2024 at 12:40

I (28M) want to preface this by saying that I have recently come to terms with the fact that I may have drinking issues that have developed over the past few months. I’ve been struggling with some personal issues and have been binge drinking more than I’d probably care to admit, perhaps as an outlet. I think this precipitated the incident below meaningfully, but at the end of the day, I take ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel like my life is falling apart
[200 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 15 2023 at 03:13 by Thea1 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / doggydilemma LAST POST: Mar 17 2024 at 04:19

My partner of 8 years went to prison almost 8 months ago. I am struggling with loneliness and trying my best to survive financially. I had found a roommate to help but that fell through in spectacular fashion. I really need someone to talk to. The alone is starting to weigh on me....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I overreacting?
[41 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 6 2024 at 22:19 by anonymoususer RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 17 2024 at 00:43

My wife and I have been together for 11 years, married for 6. A couple of weeks ago we were cleaning out her car to make room for some items she needed to move. On the floor in the back, behind the driver’s seat, I found an aluminum water bottle. It’s yellow with black lettering. It has an image of a snake and some stars and the words “Liberty Or Death” and “Don’t Tread On Me”. Obvio...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do?
[119 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 28 2023 at 17:11 by Jae RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / nav / FangTall LAST POST: Mar 15 2024 at 03:34

Hi... I don't know how this works, but I am already at my wits end😔 I have no one to confide in and this is my last resort after thinking for a while. OK! Here goes. I have a friend who makes me feel as if we are dating. She prefers to only be in my room with me, watching movies and cuddle with the doors closed. Its up to the point where my parents think we're dating and they do...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryA disgruntled ex staff member
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 14 2024 at 07:13 by GigiFerdi RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Mar 14 2024 at 13:29

I had a staff member who voluntarily resigned from my place of business. However, this person made it seem like I had terminated their job prematurely. This person suspectedly had given my establishment a negative rating on Google reviews. I am not able to confirm whether that person who has reviewed was my ex staff member because they had used an unfamiliar user name. However that particular u...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryMy little sister is doing something wrong
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 9 2024 at 20:15 by ISJD RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 11 2024 at 18:38

I came home from school for the weekend and I was stunned to see my little sister (9) in her room with the massager my dad bought. She said she was massaging her stomcah which I believed cuse I didn't see the device move from where it was in her stomach from under her thin blanket. I hoped she was telling the truth but the next time I found her doing it she'd moved it from her lower area...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy family won't understand me at all
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 9 2024 at 16:12 by Stuckinaloop RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / manalone LAST POST: Mar 10 2024 at 20:45

I live with my family. But they have become toxic and they just can't be happy with anything. I am being restricted to go out of my house. Each time I go out I have to give them an excuse or a complete explanation. I can't speak freely while I am at my home. I am 25 and I don't have a room of my own. All of my belongings are kept in different places and I have to move my things when...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI always cry at confrontations
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 8 2024 at 13:59 by Lyx742 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 10 2024 at 00:59

I, female 18, always cry at confrontations, especially with teachers. I'm not even feeling bad or anything but I just start tearing up and I don't how to control it. Today a teacher catched me on my phone and wanted to talk to me after the lesson. And I immediately started tearing up and couldn't even properly speak because my lips were trembling and my voice was cracking. Like I...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease S.O.S
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 8 2024 at 10:46 by HugYou93 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 9 2024 at 18:40

I'm having a issue with my car. I need a battery I can't get to work . I have 3 kids and I'm a single dad. I have no friends or family to help me. Please I'm begging anyone to help...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBetrayed or not betrayed?
[29 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 1 2024 at 22:01 by RachD RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 7 2024 at 10:11

I recently discovered that my husband of 20 years modelled for erotic photographs with other women when he was a young man, which are on the web. This was a decade before we met. What bothers me is that he told my best friend (whom I have known for 30 years) and did not tell me (she is his friend as well, but they have only known each other since 2006). Further to this, she kept this a secret from...

Housing advice forum category advice forum categoryLiving decisions
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 5 2024 at 20:56 by Jocelyn Wilkes RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Mar 6 2024 at 15:01

My sister and I are both in college living in a dorm right now. We are trying to decide on where to live but our University does not have the best of options. We want to live in a two bedroom apartment so that we can have it to ourselves and never have to worry about who is over or trying to have some alone time. The apartments associated with the University are super expensive for two bedroom so ...

Education advice forum category advice forum categoryMilitary or alternate pathway for job?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 18 2024 at 01:05 by QueMar RESPONDENTS: manalone / Jocelyn Wilkes LAST POST: Mar 5 2024 at 20:21

I have a job that I would really like to pursue, but the easiest and most likely way to get the job is to join the military first (Specificqlly Navy). I could, of course, try and avoid the military and spend all my time in colleges, but that would take much more time. I've heard stories about how bad military service can be, but that's not the main problem. I'm confident that I w...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryProposal ultimatum / am I overthinking / or in toxic relationship?
[25 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 2 2024 at 14:06 by Abcd123 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 5 2024 at 02:48

Hi, So I've been in a relationship for 3.5 years. Upa and downs of course. Though for a while now I've been feeling trapped/ stressed, so been doing research and I don't think I am respected and maybe with someone with a narcissistic tendencies. I feel I have been love bombed and then screamed at. My needs have not been met for the last few years, loads of little things that ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs he playing??
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 4 2024 at 03:02 by Natty1522 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 4 2024 at 14:59

In September 2023, a neighbor and I started communicating and occasionally meeting up due to our busy schedules—he works 8-12 hours a day, while I'm unemployed due to disability and caring for my sickly 92-year-old mother. Despite occasional communication issues, he expressed a desire to marry and start a family, and we've both shared fond feelings. However, after two intimate encoun...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy first attempt at a relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 28 2024 at 13:10 by AdvancedAstronaut9 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 2 2024 at 17:00

I had a crush on a girl in my class, and though I was getting over it, we started chatting two weeks ago. For the first three days, we chatted for over four hours each night (from midnight to 4:00 AM). After the fifth day, I asked her out, and she agreed. On our first "date"(idk if we can call it a date) I bought her a rose, and she accepted it, hugged me, and we had a great time. She me...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIssues reconnecting with my father
[62 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 18 2023 at 16:09 by FangTall RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 2 2024 at 14:32

Tl;Dr: My dad has been really difficult to maintain any sort of relationship with, especially in the past few months or so. He doesn't seem to respect me at all, as far as I can tell we don't have any common interests anymore and I'm feeling really conflicted and angry over something he said on social media. It's to the point where I don't even want to talk to him. Any ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to manage life without owning a vehicle?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 26 2024 at 07:35 by eryengesh RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 2 2024 at 14:30

I'm from a country (India) where it requires extremely good driving skills. Roads are narrow and traffic is very heavy. Traffic is so heavy that there is a huge risk of unskilled drivers to bump into other vehicles. All cars and vehicles are very close to each other. In India, we all have manual car transmission. Actually, me (25) and my brother (27) are naturally not made for driving cars...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGirl is obsessed with my boyfriend
[15 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 27 2024 at 23:58 by Cordilla599 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 2 2024 at 12:16

I’m not sure if there is much else that I can do differently or that my boyfriend can do. The situation makes me so uncomfortable and I feel like this girl would do anything in her power to get me out of the picture so she could have a shot with my boyfriend (even though she still would not). I think she has delusional beliefs that she would. In her small defense he has a very gregarious and fun...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryRude text from coworker
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 1 2024 at 13:12 by Reggie96 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Mar 2 2024 at 00:48

This was a text I received from a coworker in a work group: But in all reality... teamwork makes the dream work.... if you aren't happy.... just LEAVE. It's as simple as that. .. but grown ass woman acting like their shit don't stink and saying everyone around them is the problem instead of looking at themselves in the mirror is very disturbing. Hi five to the Tracey and Regina in...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryCan sexual orientation change after trauma???
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 23 2024 at 14:08 by c0nfusedAF RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 1 2024 at 15:07

Hi everybody, i am currently freaking out. i've been out as a lesbian for almost 4 years, known it for 7. i'm in therapy for other reasons and i'm starting to find out that i have a very messed up, complicated relationship with men due to me being abused online by an older man when i was in my early teens. that's the big reason but there has been some other minor instances ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs no answer the answer?
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 25 2024 at 19:32 by ctytchr RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / manalone LAST POST: Mar 1 2024 at 12:35

I had a group of friends from high school and we stayed friends through college and beyond. We are all almost thirty now. I would have thought that since we lasted so many years we would continue to last. Around age 27 people started really going in different directions. I was single and struggling with dating (now finally happily in a healthy relationship!) two of the girls where living with seri...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know how to leave him
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 21 2024 at 17:53 by Anni3 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Lisa505 / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 29 2024 at 14:45

My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months. I come from a very religious environment where saving yourself for marriage is a big thing. When I first started dating him, he was okay with the idea of us not having sex. But after a while, we started having arguments that always led back to me not loving him enough because I wouldn't sleep with him. We even almost broke ...