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Relationship advice forum category advice forum category To Stay Married??? Is It Worth It? Can It Get Better? (Posts: 74)
CREATED: Jul 3 2017 at 06:26 by Reliable me RESPONDENTS: Scopes / london / Soulmate / johnperes / Silvarion / MamaBear / TRULUV LAST POST: Dec 15 2017 at 00:12

I've been married for 8 years and have three beautiful children. Both my husband and I have gone through some very big, and positive life changes such as obtaining our professional careers, having another baby, and moving. These changes, though positive, have creating issues and tension in our marriage. (Or at least I think those must be contributing factors, right??). When I fell for my husband he had been so loving, patient, kind, caring, observant, and thoughtful. He was fun and funny and didn't let me get too wrapped up in the little things. Now, however, he is irritable, angry, contr...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Parents Split Up (Posts: 267)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme LAST POST: Dec 14 2017 at 23:41

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Married But Am Attracted To Someone Else (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Dec 13 2017 at 10:53 by Elcapitano RESPONDENTS: Kriya / Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 14 2017 at 21:35

Hello all just looking for a bit of advice. I am a 32 year old married man with a 5 year old son. A few months ago I met a 21 year old girl at my work and we hit it off straightaway. She is objectively very attractive and incredibly intelligent. We got on really well and people even teased us about our closeness. We even started to message each other as friends outside of work. I was confused about whether I was developing feelings for her or not. Anyhow a couple of months ago I started a new job and she went to volunteer overseas. I thought this would help me to get over her. Anyhow I popped ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is He Going To Break Up With Me? (Posts: 7)
CREATED: Dec 7 2017 at 18:52 by Amister RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Squirrel / 8Twenty8 / Maian LAST POST: Dec 14 2017 at 16:20

Hello everyone, I've been going out with my boyfriend for four years. Little bit of back ground, we met in our first year of uni and been dating ever since. We moved back home got jobs and saved hard to rent somewhere together. A couple of months ago, we moved into an apartment and things seemed fine. He's always been really thoughtful and in the past has done lots of lovely surprises for me. He is a generally nice, laid back person, and my friends and family have always commented on what a nice guy he is. recently there has been a change in his behaviour. I would say the starting point...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is It A Relationship Without Sex? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Dec 12 2017 at 17:04 by Gillyd RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 14 2017 at 15:06

Is it a relationship if there is no sex? My boyfriend who I live with has no interest in sex, kissing or touching me. I have talked to him about it and he says he just has no interest in it. I have recently started a new job and feel more connection to one of the guys at work than my boyfriend. Really confused xx...

Work advice forum category advice forum category I Don't Know How To Handle The Situation? I Need Advice (Posts: 7)
CREATED: Nov 17 2017 at 11:09 by Stella1978 RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Susiedqq / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Dec 13 2017 at 08:56

I need advice.Sorry for the long post, I would really appreciate it if you read it.I don't know how to get out of this situation?I'm writing this post because basically I'm lost.I don't know what to do?I invited my boss's sister to join my all female group with a specific focus.My boss is always complaining that her sister is socially awkward and lost in life so i decided to invite her to join my group.I work there for the past two years but my boss doesn't like me.She seems very uninterested and unimpressed with me.I should also admit I'm scared of her.She basically ignores me in the office a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category No Sex In Relationship (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Dec 11 2017 at 02:42 by Gillyd RESPONDENTS: Dog lover / Arrow123 / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Dec 13 2017 at 08:17

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but for last 2 years there has been no sex or intimacy....he says he has no interest in it and is not interested in fixing it. I feel now that it is more like a friendship than a relationship. Is it a relationship without sex? I really miss the affection and have started to notice someone else and I feel bad about it but I just crave some affection x...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Rejection (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Dec 12 2017 at 15:17 by Kriya RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Dec 13 2017 at 07:10

I liked a guy very much once and i told with a lot of courage to him that i like him but he refused even talking to me as friend.It was 7 years back.I couldn't forget this rejection.He is completely enjoying his life.He has friends,relationships but this rejection made me very negative about myself.After 7 years he called me randomly and said i love you.I couldn't understand why he did like this.Earlier he didn't want even to talk with me.He refused me without even knowing me as a person.I still have feelings for him but i know his feelings aren't genuine.I don't trust him.He even approached m...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is It A Relationship If Theirs No Sex? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Dec 12 2017 at 16:21 by Gillyd RESPONDENTS: Arrow123 / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Dec 13 2017 at 06:46

I am with someone who has no interest in having sex, kissing or touching me. I have talked to him about it but says it just doesn’t interested in it. Is it a relationship without sex? I have recently started talking to someone else at work and feel more connected to him than my partner xx...

Money advice forum category advice forum category Boyfriend Is Not Financially Responsible (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 11 2017 at 05:46 by Dog lover RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 11 2017 at 20:48

I really need advice on whether or not I should continue my relationship with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He is 40 years old and has 2 daughters. He has a job that doesn’t pay very well and when we met he had a lot of credit card debt (around $20,000). He then sold the house he lived in with his ex wife and paid a lot of it off but is still spending a lot every month. I don’t know for sure if he is racking up more debt but from what I can estimate he is spending more than he is making. He buys his kids something pretty much wherever we go with them and uses the excuse that each ...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Girlfriend Is Depressed And We Both Don’t Know What To Do With Our Relationsh (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 10 2017 at 23:18 by Harper.s RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 11 2017 at 20:44

My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now. A few weeks ago she told me she was depressed, and all I want is to help her get better. The only problem here is our relationship. Indeed, I love her more than everything in this world, but she’s constantly telling me that she is feeling overwhelmed because of any kind of relationship and I honestly get it. But we are in a long distance relationship so we barely see each other and when she’s not feeling good she doesn’t want to see me. She says she’s sorry because she knows I’m hurting and she says it’s not fair that s...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Just Friends Or No? Someone Please Explain This (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 11 2017 at 04:55 by Rachelxox1932 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 11 2017 at 20:40

Ive been messing around and talking to this guy for about 5 months now. and i have no idea what is going on. Ive tried having a talk with him and he says its just a friendship. But im so confused as to if its really just a friendship. We have sex. We go to bed together. Make suppers together. Cuddle on the couch together. He has a job where he works away. So i only see him one week out of the month but almost all of his time is spent with me. He just recently spent 5 days with me laying on a couch and hardly anyone else. he says we are just friends. But how do i know if hes falling for me ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Need Advice On How To Deal With Boyfriends Kids Sleeping Arrangement (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 11 2017 at 05:23 by Dog lover RESPONDENTS: Arrow123 LAST POST: Dec 11 2017 at 07:39

My boyfriend and I live in a 2 bedroom apartment. His 2 daughters (9 and 5 years old) stay with us Fri-Sun for 3 weekends every month (so a total of 9 nights every month). Lately they have been insisting on sleeping on the couch every night that they’re here. They have a bedroom that has 2 beds in it for them but they don’t want to sleep in there. This bothers me and my boyfriend doesn’t think it’s a big deal. Am I overreacting? I just think it’s dumb we’re paying for a 2 bedroom apartment when they aren’t using it at all. Note before we moved in, I asked him if he thou...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Trying To Repair Broken Relatioship (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 7 2017 at 19:06 by T900 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 10 2017 at 12:57

My wife of 4 years and I have reached are temporary living apart but still together. It's mostly my fault because I didn't love or treat her the way she deserved I didn't appreciate her, took her for granted and wasnt there as much as i should have been. My wife has given me two chances in the last year to change and I did try to change because i love my wife very much and i let things go back to the way it was. Now we had a very good talk and communicated very well and I finally understand what she needs in the relatioship. Im commited to changing 100 percent and treat her the way she de...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Female For Female Advice Please (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 9 2017 at 15:31 by DZ RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 10 2017 at 12:54

Hello peoples problems happy holidays. I am a 64 yr old mature woman with a personal female related question requesting genuine input only from other women please. I was just at the GYN for my annual check and all is going good except for sometimes having the usual issues in that area. My GYN is a woman and she suggested that I could remove all of my hair there to help with the feminine hygiene. I have always maintained my hair there to be short but never fully removed all of my hair completely. I feel awkward at my age to be that way. I suppose I am reluctant to be a grown woman almost in my ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Girlfriend Has Nude Photos On Snapchat (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Dec 9 2017 at 11:04 by Dead Ringer RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Arrow123 / Maian LAST POST: Dec 10 2017 at 12:24

So me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year now. Everything's been fairly OK up until about a month ago. She was showing me different pictures she had on snap chat swiping through many of them when all of a sudden she swipes to a naked picture of her in a dressing room. She quickly turned her phone away and tried to play it off. She said she took it for me but didn't want to send it because she didn't really like it. I don't even have a snap chat to begin with. I got really upset but decided to give her the benifit of the doubt. It's been a while but this still eats at me. So I ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Do Th Want Her To Move In (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Dec 6 2017 at 16:45 by Emmajm RESPONDENTS: heretohelp / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Dec 9 2017 at 16:44

Hiya I live with my nan and dad at my nans house and my older sister, whos 18, three years older then me, lives with my mam. My sister told us she wants to come and live with us because my mam has a new boyfriend she deosnt like she says he's well creepy and she and my mam argue all the time because of him. My sisters boyfriend dumped her too and was seeing her best mate behind her back and now she doesn't want to be at home no more. My nan and dad talked about this and told her she could move in and I'm really upset with them they never asked me if I was ok with it and they know what'...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Husband And The Neighbor (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Dec 5 2017 at 16:14 by Runner1307 RESPONDENTS: Sarah / Merci / Squirrel / Arrow123 LAST POST: Dec 9 2017 at 16:20

I caught my husband and my neighbor sexting. I'm so hurt and don't know what to do. He admitted to sexting, but claims nothing else happen and that he wants to work on things. Thing is I don't believe him completely. My extinct tells me something happened between them. They are so many questions. For one months prior to me catching them. She came to me upset about my husband trying to sleep with her and how she would never do that and she is sorry. She told me I need to leave him. Even offered me to stay with her. I confronted him about it then. He claimed that she was a liar. And that if it w...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category His Affairs That Lasted 8 Years. But He Wants Me To Prove To Him I'm The One. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 7 2017 at 22:05 by Tae RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 9 2017 at 13:33

Ive been married 8 years. One month into my marriage i found out my husband was talking to other females (One female he has been talking to off and on our entire marriage). He stated he would end it. But it still continued with different women for years. 5 years into our marriage i had an emotional affair with someone. It took a BIG toll on my marriage and after some time i regained his trust again and things seems perfect. Well again this same female who he has been taking to since we got married showed up on our phone bill again. I started to not feel connected with my husband anymore but i ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Oversenstive? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 8 2017 at 10:39 by Iaminneedofhelp RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 9 2017 at 13:26

Hello all!!! I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just coming up to a year. Everything runs pretty smoothly, however there is one thing that we have argued about and that is her male best friend. A few years ago in told her that he had feelings for her, which doesnt help. Also being a man, I also know what they are like. I dont have issue with their friendship and I dont have any trust issues concerning my girlfriend. My main issue is the way he acts around my girlfriend and what he says to her: Some of the things he has said or done: - I was with a girl last n...

Education advice forum category advice forum category Parents Divorcing And Making Bad Decisions At School And Life (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 6 2017 at 02:36 by Miranda2575 RESPONDENTS: Squirrel LAST POST: Dec 8 2017 at 21:51

I'm a teenager and I'm dealing with my parents getting a divorce. I'm not doing horrible in school. I HAD all A's until I made a mistake. I plagiarized a homework assignment yesterday. My teacher caught me and has given me a 0. She left a comment on my assignment that seemed she was mad. I replied with me being sorry and apologizing. Yet she hasn't replied. And I KNOW she has read it. I get to see her tomorrow and idk what to do! We also have a big test about the book my assignment was about. I'm scared! I keep regretting the decision that I made. And on top of all of this my parents are repe...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Difficult Situation. (Posts: 8)
CREATED: Dec 4 2017 at 19:31 by Sarah RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / CROSSroads / TRULUV LAST POST: Dec 8 2017 at 19:47

Hi there, So lately I have been speaking to this guy who seems so lovely and genuine, we have called and FaceTimed and it has been great. He attends another school and my way of getting to know others more would be to start calling them and getting to know them more- which he is perfectly fine with. Rewinding to about last year when I dated a different guy and I had failed to speak to my parents about it as sometimes I just don’t think!! Like I don’t think ahead sometimes and it really frustrates me. I have improved however. There were consequences for my actions obviously and I ha...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Its Eating Me Up (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Dec 6 2017 at 10:01 by Suzy86 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Susiedqq / Squirrel / Tulowitz LAST POST: Dec 8 2017 at 19:00

My sons dad and I were together and very happy until I got PPD and completely pushed him away. He fought hard to keep us together. Eventually he met someone and moved on. I was still in love with him so expressed that to him and he rejected me. A few months later his new girl finished with him and after a few weeks he told me he was still in love with me and wanted to try again. We are back together and I really love him. But I can't get over the fact that had she not finished with him he would not be here. So I feel like second choice. Any thoughts?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Break Up Because I Can't Get Pregnant (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Dec 1 2017 at 08:33 by RianafromFinland RESPONDENTS: Maian / Haz / lily31 / Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 8 2017 at 18:32

Hi all! Yesterday evening my current partner informed me that if we don't have a baby we will separate. It is not easy for me to even write it here and the more I process it the more I want like to shove it all in some corner and forget about this nightmare of a life. So basically we are in a partnership for 4 years and we are trying to have a baby for like 3 years but I didn't get pregnant. I have underwent insemination 2-3 times but it didn't help. Now we are planning to do the IVF but now I am not confident anymore that will succeed. My confidence is shuttered and I don't have anymore hope....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Give Him Time? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Dec 3 2017 at 12:13 by Haz RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Dec 7 2017 at 15:35

My ex broke up with me 8 months ago, he had a lot of stress with family and work and didn't need the extra pressure of a relationship. We were together a year and everything seemed fine before this. He asked me to make more of a commitment and the following week he changed. He asked to meet and we did and he said he regretted his decision to break up but couldn't get back together cos he feared hurting me again. I contacted him 3 months ago and asked him to try and he says he wants to but is afraid of hurting me. I do believe he is genuine. Any time I walk away and say that's it he asks for mo...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Head Over Heels (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 7 2017 at 02:32 by LOSTT RESPONDENTS: MamaBear LAST POST: Dec 7 2017 at 06:57

I have a problem and I don't know what to do… Two years ago I fell in Love with a man I don't know at all. Just Amor visited me.. suddenly, unexpectedly.. I hoped it would fade away but it didn't. The problem is that I am in a long term relationship with my school-time-love Jack. The new man, Samuel, is not willing to meet me unless I leave Jack. But we live in a very expensive city and I cannot afford my own apartment. Samuel once invited me for a date but then he got cold feet and didn't come. I don't know what to do. Samuel neglects all my efforts to be in direct contact with him but he l...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category My Mum Doesn’t Want Anything To Do With Me And I Can’t Accept It (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Dec 3 2017 at 22:05 by Alanabarton11 RESPONDENTS: Sarah / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Dec 6 2017 at 20:48

I’m 14 years old and 3 years ago I had a family crisis which was all down to my mum which left the whole family broken.she broke up with my dad and took all his money and left him homeless.a week later,she moved her new boyfriend in with us so I went and lived with my dad and my nans house.i didn’t speak to my mum for a while and she made no effort with me.i started seeing her more often but every time I saw her we had more arguments.i thought that if I left her alone for a while and let her come to me that it might’ve make me feel better but it has been 3 months and she still hadn’t e...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category How Do I Stop Missing The Man Whose Baby I’m Carrying? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Dec 4 2017 at 18:15 by Amq00004 RESPONDENTS: Sarah / Tulowitz LAST POST: Dec 6 2017 at 20:43

Hi, I am 9 weeks pregnant. It was a complete surprise, and a massive shock. The father, I have know for about 4 years, we dated back then and he moved through work and it fizzled out. He’s always been in the background and was someone I considered a good friend and trustworthy. We started spending time together in the summer, and I found out five weeks ago about the pregnancy. Naturally the first person I turned to was the father, who lost his head, and tried to persuade me to abort. This is not something I could morally do. As a result, he told me we were no longer together ( in fact he...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum category In Love With My Best Friend (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 08:00 by Shy Sheep RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 4 2017 at 23:02

I’m a female bisexual and coincidentally, so is my female best friend. We’ve known each other since before our elementary days, and have been super close ever since. Naturally, being best friends, we goof off a lot, but somewhere down the line, our jokes got kinda ambiguous (ex. joking about marrying/kissing each other, etc.) It was all fun and games then, but since a few years ago, I realized that all my jokes don’t really feel like jokes anymore...I’ve developed feelings for her. I think there’s a good chance she may have feelings for me too, as there have been incidents in the ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What To Do (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 3 2017 at 15:24 by flashheart RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Dec 4 2017 at 03:48

I need some advice please ..... I'm in a relationship with a married woman. we love each other but for financial reasons we can't to together now. whats killing me is she has regular sex with her husband, they go on holidays quite a few times and I know the sex increases .... what do i do? ...

Money advice forum category advice forum category Do I Go Or Do I Not?? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Dec 3 2017 at 14:07 by Sarah RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / lily31 LAST POST: Dec 3 2017 at 14:51

So basically this year in my History class an opportunity has opened for me to take part in an excursion to Belgium as part of my education. I have agreed to go, forms have been filled out about my medical details and I have paid the deposit. Now I am starting to question whether I want to go or not. Sometimes I think it’s going to be a waste and the money (roughly £315) will definitely be wasted. But other times I think it will be a brilliant educational experience and it will be a laugh with my friends and I. I don’t want to go and regret what I have spent on, then I don’t wan...

Money advice forum category advice forum category I Don’t Know How To Help My Mom. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 1 2017 at 20:04 by Bambi RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 3 2017 at 14:08

Hello everyone, I’m not english so I already apologise for future mistake. I’m having problems dealing with my mom, we are going through a rough time with money (like many people), but I believe she really overthink the situation and she’s making me very nervous. We have everything that we need, she just bought a new house for my grandma and we had zero problems buying things for Christmas or shopping, etc. But everytime we do something she starts talking about money and it really affects me. When I try to talk about this she gets angry and usually we end up fighting. I really...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Fake It Until You Make It Right? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 13:46 by Sadmomof3 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 3 2017 at 13:54

My husband and I have been together for 17 years married for 13. To outsiders we appear to have the perfect life. Healthy kids (20 15 3), great careers, financially stable, nice home, get along great etc etc etc. What people don't know is that my husband is a former drug addict. Not just an occasional recreational use but a full blown, spend 2-3k a week went to rehab addict. It nearly destroyed our relationship years ago. I drew a line in the sand and he said he would get clean. He didn't. I threw him out in 2013. He totaled my brand new truck two months later, I found it I was pregnant, he ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Confused About Myself (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 14:08 by lovelykitty09 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 3 2017 at 13:46

Well,the problem is i dont understand myself at all.I always prefer to keep inside me and deal with my own problems by myself but this time I'm really confused. As a bit of background,I'm 19 years old and I come from a cold family with divorced parents and grow up hearing scandal between my grandparents and mom almost everyday. I think I have anxiety and maybe depression, but I feel I'm getting better now.I was always shy to talk to others and always worry they will judge me. As a result I almost didn't talk with anyone in my class in middle school and high school and I was always being put as...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is This Considered Cheating? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 15:45 by NaughtySanta RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Haz LAST POST: Dec 3 2017 at 12:17

My girlfriend has a friend who she gets very physical with. I know they used to cuddle and sleep in the same bed at sleepovers, they play fight and sometimes even hold hands, sit on each other's laps. My gf also used to invite her over late at night to stay with her until sunrise, but refuse to sneak out and see me when I wanted to. I was suspicious and went through her phone today to see their chat. The girl had travelled for a vacation and has been gone for a week.My gf said she misses her and everything, her hugs and cuddles that made her feel safe,comfortable,warm. She says "Oh bab...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Bulling & Social Life (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 17:31 by Eren Yeager RESPONDENTS: Maian LAST POST: Dec 2 2017 at 23:54

So I Am 16 Years Old I got a weak personality Even Though I Got a well built Body I am too weak I Get bullied a lot I cant stand for myself I got a bad social life 0 Hobbies 0 skills I need help......... ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Why The F**k Is He Doing This To Me (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 09:10 by Patron767 RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Dec 2 2017 at 22:12

So I was hooking up with this guy for a few months during the summer. He said he liked me but he was weird about dating and we never discussed it. I left cause the job was seasonal. I found another seasonal job for the winter and it turns out he works here too. We were away from each other for a month. We never really texted, he never answered my snaps, so I forgot about it. Turns out he now has a gf and said he’s trying this boyfriend thing and long distance. P.S. he told me we wouldn’t work out because of distance. So the rent day he cheated and we hooked up again. And it’s continuing....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category My Wife Cheated (Posts: 7)
CREATED: Nov 15 2017 at 03:17 by mywifecheated RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Soulmate / Problem Solver / TNT / CROSSroads / Scopes LAST POST: Dec 2 2017 at 08:01

I found out on October 23rd my wife was having an affair with the contractor working on our kitchen. I am so sad and confused. We've been married for 8 years. We have been going to therapy since 2 days after, and she has seemed to be very focused on fixing things and moving on, but I found out tonight she is still emailing with her lover. I had asked and she confirmed as soon as I found out that it would be cut off, but now I am finding out that was a lie too. I am so lost and don't know what to do. We have a 4 year old, and I feel like if I decide to leave than it would be me giving up, ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Hopeless And Depressed About Marriage (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Dec 1 2017 at 13:02 by Chicka123 RESPONDENTS: Bambi LAST POST: Dec 1 2017 at 20:15

I have been married for a little under 2 years, together for over 3 years. This is my second marriage and third for my husband. We have had a lot of stress in the past 4 months due to selling, buying and moving into a new home. My husband has now become critical of me, increasingly angry and actually has yelled and called me an idiot a couple of weeks ago. I was very hurt by this remark and let him know. He shrugged it off as he does everything and said I was making a big deal about it. He has also become more and more silly and goofy with me, especially after this incident. He often ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is My Marriage Over? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Nov 27 2017 at 17:01 by Dollface7 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / Mingliao / Chicka123 / Tulowitz LAST POST: Dec 1 2017 at 17:28

I have been married for less than a year and things are going very wrong. I moved into my husbands house where he never made room for me. He has a ton of stuff. Months later we filled a dumpster and he still has so much stuff left. He has gym equpiment and tools that take up a two car garage, shed and three additional rooms in the home. I'm literally going crazy. To me it seems he values this stuff more than me and our relationship. 70 % of my stuff is still in boxes where I cannot access it. We argue most of the time because of this. I feel I compromise and he doesn't. This eventually tur...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Ex-boyfriend And I (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Nov 23 2017 at 02:42 by alix2016 RESPONDENTS: Susiedqq / CROSSroads LAST POST: Dec 1 2017 at 03:38

Let me start by saying, no he did not cheat or fall in love with someone else. We were very much in love with each other, our love was so big it surpassed a lot of bumps in our relationship. Okay, so recently, he has been under a lot of stress with school and work and family, and we weren't able to spend much time together. Recently, a big argument occurred in my house and I went to him and we had an argument because I didn't want to go back home. I got angry and told him I didn't want to love him, but after I calmed down I told him I was sorry and that I do love him and will always love him a...