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Other advice forum category advice forum category Is She Fake ? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jun 23 2017 at 20:34 by aries 68 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Altreal LAST POST: Jun 25 2017 at 07:49

New to this forum, but need some advice. I started a new job in 2006 and a colleague started 4 months after me. We worked together on and off and was always very sociable to each other and got on well. In 2010 I realised that we seemed to have got a lot closer and worked together on a more regular basis. We would message each other all the time in / out of work, evenings and weekends. We found ourselves confiding in one another and supported each other with all good and bad aspects of our life's. I have been let down before so was a bit reluctant to let her in completley but after a ...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship End? (Posts: 56)
CREATED: Jan 3 2017 at 15:18 by Woozy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / honestruth / slowjoe83 / alsosusan2 / harry888 / Gto444 LAST POST: Jun 25 2017 at 04:40

Well, im 28 and my girlfriend is 22. We have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and started to live together after 2 months meeting. Everything was great till 2 weeks ago, when we had a horrible fight. I know i haven't been a perfect guy but we always have had a jelousy problem. She doesn't trust me most likely at all. But for her, i even stoped talking to other females long time ago, cus i love her so much and that's not a problem for me. But every time someone contacted me, there was a problem, so i think i was getting distant cus lack of trust. That was wrong of me. Looking back i wa...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Parents Split Up (Posts: 189)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk LAST POST: Jun 24 2017 at 20:34

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category The Wedding Of People Pleasing (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 22 2017 at 16:33 by Jriv RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / manalone LAST POST: Jun 23 2017 at 10:04

so here is a little backstory to my issue. I am currently 25 years old and since I was 17 years old my brother had been dating then got engaged and had a child with someone who grew to be my best friend. Over the course of the last year, they had broken up and both moved on. He is now engaged to be married just like myself. At first he was okay with our friendship but over time he grew to hate it and felt like since they were done that I needed to just drop her. Beinf that she has been there for me since forever I simply could not just drop her like she meant nothing. He stopped talking to m...

Work advice forum category advice forum category I Feel Lost (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 19:08 by RingoParker RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jun 23 2017 at 09:07

Hello all, It took a while for me to search and find a decent forum, but finally I found this and I will try to explain my situation. I feel I am a failure. Simple as that, I feel like I am not capable of doing something right in my entire life. I will try to start with the begining. First of all, I am 30 years old male. I finished school in 2011 and finally got a job one year later. I struggled a lot to find something. All of the interviews I had were poor, I did not manage to impress. But one year later I found a job in the press. It was my all time dream, but the money was reall...

Other advice forum category advice forum category School Showers Are So Awkward! (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 23 2017 at 03:02 by Canadian315 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jun 23 2017 at 07:12

at some point during my school year teachers started complaining about how students smelled bad after gym class. My gym class ( girls) was forced to shower after class. Since there's only 5 shower heads, we had to stand in a line, butt ass naked. Some girls didn't care if they were seen in the nude, but for me , there is nothing more embarassing than standing in a line butt ass naked in front of a bunch of girls you know. I had to cover my boobs and vagina with my hands and i just acknowledged the fact that my naked butt was going to be seen. The other part that i hate is having to undress and...

Work advice forum category advice forum category Job Won't Let Me Quit :( (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 22:54 by Illyria RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 22 2017 at 13:12

I'm sorry for posting here, but I suffer from social anxiety and I'm really wavering in my resolve here. I'm not really sure what elese to say other than, here is my situation. Please tell me what you think. Firstly, I've been in Spain for the past nine months working as an English teacher. In fact, a week Saturday I'm leaving to study my Masters degree in the UK for a year before, hopefully, returning (Brexit allowing!). Needless to say, I got a job through a friend out here. This job turned out to be less than ideal. For a start, they have been giving me nonsensical contracts with no dat...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Vacation Feud (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 11:20 by Davenajean RESPONDENTS: Ashit Raja / Susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 22 2017 at 03:51

My husband and I had planned a 9 day vacation at our little cabin since January. He decided to invite his parents to " visit" and take them out on a charter boat fishing. Problem is that he did this without talking to me about it. I was pissed. We argued. He said I was selfish hateful etc. I told him I would suck it up, never do that again and at least we would have half the vacation to ourselves. Nope, they plan on being there the entire time. He says he will just cancel the entire vacation instead of asking them to leave a few days early. I'm not canceling my vacation. I need some ti...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Please Help, Wife Cheating (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jun 20 2017 at 15:08 by Badly_Hurt RESPONDENTS: Advice / manalone / Ashit Raja LAST POST: Jun 21 2017 at 14:37

Hi, I am a 40 years old guy, happily married for 10 years and a kid. I love my family and I spend a lot of time with them trying to give a healthy and good environment for my son to grow. All was good, until about 6 months ago, my wife's android phone's screen broke. She bought a new phone and continue using her new phone. When I got the phone repaired recently and switched on, I could see her Facebook (fb) account still logged in. I was shocked to see that on fb, she is a part of many adult groups in which adult contents are exchanged. Adult posts, pics and videos are shared in thes...

Other advice forum category advice forum category No Friends, Too Ugly And My Life Is Going Nowhere.......help! (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 01:36 by scott020298 RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Ashit Raja LAST POST: Jun 21 2017 at 14:00

Hi, first of all I would like to start with the good points, it shouldn't take long. I am currently writing this on a ship over in Uruguay, I am with the merchant navy as a deck cadet so I get to travel the world a fair bit. I am from the UK and am 19 years old so still pretty young. I would say I am very spoilt as my family give me a lot of expensive things and am earning a fair bit on this cadetship. My family care for me a lot and spend a lot of time with me and my brother, all seems good so far but now to the bad points. I have virtually no friends, I got bullied in high school by abou...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Will I Ruin Fiance's Life Marrying Him When I Have Depression? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 19 2017 at 07:50 by Berna RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Ashit raja LAST POST: Jun 20 2017 at 06:58

In general I would like to know what people have experienced when they married a person who is depressed. We are both 26 and have been engaged for about 6 months and dated about a year and a half before that. Quick few details: He knows I have depression and knew before proposing to me. He is incredibly athletic doing Triathlons and is very healthy all around- I am not the slightest bit athletic or even workout. neither of us are overly social people generally but he loves and keeps his family close and talks/ visits often. I am opposite where I hardly keep in contact with mine and when I do i...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Do I Need Help? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 19 2017 at 17:55 by Nightowl13 RESPONDENTS: 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 19 2017 at 23:07

Hello. This is the first time i post on a forum but i guess i'm kind of desperate. I'm only 18 but all of my life i have been a little hostile with mt feelings... Not in a bad way, more like a puppy protecting its toys. Since i was in the 5th grade i felt different, my friends stopped talking to me because i was rude (Apparently in a boyish way) and didn't really care about other peoples problems. And that went on throughout highschool. I lost SO many friends and a 2yr relationship with a guy because i was tired, i got really angry at my best friend because she tried helping me. I ...

Violence & Crime advice forum category advice forum category Paranoia Please Help Me. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 19 2017 at 00:17 by PapiChulo999 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Altreal LAST POST: Jun 19 2017 at 17:51

Hello Everyone, im in need for some help, i used to be a criminal but i stopped 1 year ago and i have these 'issues' with paranoia or maybe its PTSD idk. i can walk to the store and suddenly i spot a suspicious car and im telling myself in my head 'they are your enemies from the past and they are here to kill you so i always like run around and try to outsmart the car even tho its probebly not chasing me, i will like go around houses and try to come behind the car so i can attack them from behind before they attack me but its never a enemie its always some old dude or just a family, dont get m...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Girlfriend's Daughter Hates Me And Guilt Trips Her??!!?!? Help!! (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 16 2017 at 07:08 by Goingfast RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Altreal LAST POST: Jun 19 2017 at 17:39

The daughter is 20 with a 1 year old. We got along at first until she told her mom some lies about me and I called her out on it. Duaghter went ballistic on me and now (almost a year later)she still tells lies about me. Mom said thats how she is and is scared if she confronts her she will not be allowed to see her grandson....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Way For My Love Future (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jun 13 2017 at 06:55 by sv26 RESPONDENTS: Created4Purpose LAST POST: Jun 19 2017 at 06:12

Am aged enough to get married , am currently working ,completed my under and post graduate . i have been in love with a guy for 3 years , we know each other for 5 years since our college days , but we accepted our love for each other 3 years before and its going well , we understood each other , adjust each other and also meet up and finally we decided to get married and planned to be together till last we also decided to convey our love to our parents when time comes, but for me the time is almost come and i need to open my love anytime . i even informed about this to him . but the probl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Lost (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jun 17 2017 at 20:46 by Lkin4Balnce RESPONDENTS: PixieB / Scopes LAST POST: Jun 18 2017 at 22:21

I've moved to 2 different states in the past 2 years for my husband. My 1st move was because he was relocated for work and we got engaged. My 2nd move was because he got promoted for his job. We were living in an apartment for the first 6months and then decided to finally buy a home since this would have been our final move for his job. I found a great job as well and we closed on our home. 15days later and after 10years with his company, he was laid off. Now we are living in a place we'd never of moved to otherwise. We are selling our home after living in it for less then 3 months.... my husb...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Wasting My Youth? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 17 2017 at 22:18 by angel95 RESPONDENTS: Lkin4Balnce LAST POST: Jun 18 2017 at 01:50

Decided to post on here, because i really don't know how to regain controll over my life... I'm a 21 yo uni student, currently in my 4th semester (out of 9). I'm not to particularly found of what i'm studying, but plan to go through with it, because i already changed it once. Since my uni is not far from my hometown, i didn't move out. Maybe because of this reason or because i'm socially completely stunted, i haven't managed to find a single friend yet... In total i only went out 3 times this year, always with the same old hs school friend. Other than that i spent most of my days holed up ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Does That Mean? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 17 2017 at 10:25 by mynamesleah RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jun 17 2017 at 17:14

It's a bit weird situation (at least for me). There's one guy with who I had long distance relationship. We stopped it on his own initiative (September 2016). OK, that's not a problem. People always come and go. Moreover, he is not the first and not the last guy in my life. In January I got a friend request on Facebook from him. So, I accepted. A few days ago he started following me on Instagram. In my opinion, if you leave - don't come back forever (I know, it sounds cruel). What do you think about all this?...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Lack Of Motivation In Life (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 15 2017 at 18:16 by angeltterfly RESPONDENTS: Created4Purpose LAST POST: Jun 16 2017 at 10:02

I'm a student, I would love to say that I just lack the motivation to study but that's not true. I lack the motivation in everything I do. I don't see the point in doing well in my studies anymore. I am so tired of failing. Cut all the nonsense about how after time I would be able to pass through this stage in my life, I've heard that same advice enough to know it does not even work for me. I feel like I am in this endless pit of failure and there is just no way out for me. My whole family expects so much for me, its completely unfair and tiring on me. I try, I fail. I keep trying, I keep ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Narcissistic Grandparents (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 14 2017 at 23:49 by Saraj RESPONDENTS: TOMM28 LAST POST: Jun 16 2017 at 02:31

I recently moved back to my home state after many years away at the insistence of my parents. I quickly realized why I left 20 years ago. At first they helped out with my teenagers and finding a home. I always thanked them and helped out despite my very long work schedule around their house while we were waiting to move. Fast forward a few months and my mother sends me messages about how disrespectful and rude that I am, and that I've made my children hate her. Now mind you, I work and my children have activities and since moving, I've not asked for help after my mother told her that ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Prenatal Depression (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 15 2017 at 01:59 by She2309 RESPONDENTS: Created4Purpose / Mingliao LAST POST: Jun 15 2017 at 14:32

Hi All, I am utterly depressed almost all the time. Especially now I am 23 weeks n unhappy at work and at home. I also have complication with my pregnancy. I ended up lost about 6 kg. I really hate my job and i always hide in the toilet or one corner to cry several times a day. I do not have a supportive management. Which what can i say business is business when they know i m pregnant things get different. I also have a senior of 20 years in the company finally have the chance to pinpoint at me because the management is changing views on me as well. Eventually things turn very sour and tension...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Im Not Sure If Its Considered Cheating (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 21:41 by ShamefulGirlfriend RESPONDENTS: Floorguy / neighbour / Soulmate / Scopes LAST POST: Jun 15 2017 at 01:49

My boyfriend and I have been going through a hard patch. he has been having problems with this job and that's fine I'm very supportive I can financially take care of the both of us. I try to keep him motivated to still try even though things aren't great, but recently I have reconnected with an old friend of mine. We haven't met up and I don't plan on doing it, But long story short we have been sexting for a few days now if you don't know what sexting is its (sending naked photos to someone.) We have had sex one time many years ago we were both drinking and we hooked up, not while I was dati...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Want To Commit Suicide (Posts: 8)
CREATED: May 30 2017 at 15:11 by Briella RESPONDENTS: Nick0016 / Soulmate / 8Twenty8 / BKJaxta / Created4Purpose / Gto / Mingliao LAST POST: Jun 14 2017 at 23:09

I am a 21 year old girl, and I feel like the last two years of my life has been the worst. I just got withdrawn from medical school and right now I feel like a failure. Have always wanted to study medicine all my life, never thought of anything else except that. Now I would have to enroll again to do another course. Everyone knows am studying medicine, they are already calling me a doctor now I feel like I have disappointed everyone and I feel like a failure. My parents have accepted it buy I don't know how to face their friends and mine. Can't even go out or lift my head am so depressed that...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Need Help Please. I'm So Depressed. I Don't Know What To Do. (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jun 14 2017 at 09:01 by DarkZerr RESPONDENTS: Created4Purpose / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 14 2017 at 21:52

I was an achiever on high school. Then on college, I was an engineering student and I have this feeling where I want to vomit when there's too many people. Plus, my hands are shaking during exams or classes. This just happened on my 3rd year. I study at a college where there's too much pressure and away from my family. I failed on a subject, had the chance to retake it, and failed again. This made me so depressed that I had suicidal thoughts or feeling a failure to my parents. (By the way I am a solo child.) I feel so shy at other people expecting at my abilities. I am afraid to face people. M...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Cheating Husband? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jun 13 2017 at 19:25 by Luna92 RESPONDENTS: Created4Purpose LAST POST: Jun 14 2017 at 04:27

I'm concerned that my husband might be cheating on me, but I have no proof as of yet. In January my husband started working on Monday nights to help a co-worker out, which created flex time for later in the week. This is voluntary, and not required. When this occurred week after week, I asked my husband why it was continuing, and he said that work was going to start changing the shifts if they didn't do evening work. He even told me when the others in his section were working. The problem is that this girl is our age, extremely pretty, and seems a little noncommittal in her current relatio...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category The Art Of The Apology (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jun 12 2017 at 01:40 by JohnDoe0017 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 13 2017 at 22:35

I've been married nearly three years now. I love my wife and can't picture myself with anyone else. There's a problem, though. I've made huge concessions for our marriage. I've given up my dog due to her allergies. I've severed my relationship with one of my best friends from law school because she felt wronged by her. Most recently, I promised a friend, with her permission, that he could stay with us for two months while he was securing housing because he was just offered a job in this area and had to move his family here. Just recently, she changed her mind and told him he couldn't stay afte...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Do You Think When You Find Him On A Dating Site (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 9 2017 at 09:10 by Jessmess RESPONDENTS: manalone / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 11:56

I have recently had to take a short trip away and during this time i guess my now husband was on a classified website for hookers and also match.com and badoo.i hacked his match amd baddoo accounts which he was engaging in conversation with girls talking about he wants to chill and meet ip or asking how they like livinh where yjey live.i discovered the classified ad ones buy looking at his activitirs on the phone.and his searches.then i seen text.je sent a pic of himself nude and also said he was ohw.then the odd numbers call he acts like he dont know who or a text dont know then i research it...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Why Would My Husband Rather Masterbate Than Have Sex? (Posts: 5)
CREATED: May 24 2017 at 16:55 by Parkscore88 RESPONDENTS: manalone / bunnyhabit / whoami / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 11:29

We've been married for 8 years, have 2 kids and both work full time. For the last 5(or so) years our sex life has been a roller coaster. Either I'm with a high libido or he is. But never at the same time. More recently, over the past year I've woke to him masterbating beside me in bed. At one point I confronted him and I think he was embarrassed. He denied doing the action, and he didn't do it for a while after that. Now he'll wait until he thinks I'm alseep and go to the washroom to jerk off. No trying to pursue me before hand. He used to watch porn but now says he's against that. He alway...

Money advice forum category advice forum category Section 8 And Life Insurance (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 10 2017 at 09:27 by helponlifeandsuch RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 10:22

Hello, I have a problem. I'm currently part of the Section 8 program. Recently, I received my mother's life insurance money as a beneficiary as she died, and it's a lot, and the housing agency wants my bank statements for an annual review. I don't want to hide anything from them, but I don't want to get charged or arrested either for recently having that much money in my bank account. I had been updating my income information with them (as I got a new job that I might quit because it's making me depressed). What's the best way to go about this?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Baby By Man Other Than Husband (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jun 6 2017 at 17:28 by Devastated RESPONDENTS: Scopes / bunnyhabit / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 02:34

My husband and I had a time last summer where he left, took off his wedding ring and wanted a divorce. His reasons disnt have very much to do with me and were more influenced by outside sources. Many people were telling me he was having a workplace affair. During that time he moved out. I was incredibly lonely and coped by drinking, which I don't usually do. At one point I blacked out and believe I may have been taken advantage by a flat mate I told my huaband about this incident the next day and he just brushed it off. My husband and I have one child together, and mid month, during this mo...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Relationship And Family Stress (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 21 2017 at 09:54 by Rituga RESPONDENTS: Nia / Created4Purpose LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 02:27

Hi.thank you for providing such a support to share my problems. I would like to start from my childhood what i have suffered.i have lost my father at age of one year. I have been bought up by mother alone. Have no sibbling s. Always used to feel alone. I was not good at my academics ...No one used to do be so close with me. Just they used to make their work done with me. Even in relative s no one were close to share how lonely i felt. My mom used to shout at me and scare me always.though she used to provide me what all i require she never used to pamper me or show that love and affection and ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Son's Drug Use Has Split My Family (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jun 8 2017 at 11:12 by jennywren50 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / manalone / 8Twenty8 / Created4Purpose LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 02:13

Trying to be brief! My son, who is now 30, has been plagued by drug use since a young age. I have tried to support him through recovery whilst still caring for my elderly mother and doing as much as possible for my 3 daughters and their families. Last October one of my daughters stated that if I had any more contact with my son they would disown me.All I did was buy food for his dog and that was it, no contact since then.I had a new grandson 3 months ago. I've not seen him and was worried sick when he went into hospital on two occasions for operations. I still have a relationship with my eldes...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Sad Heart; Can't Find An Answer (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 10 2017 at 13:34 by sootyandsweep RESPONDENTS: Created4purpose LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 01:39

I dont want to go into too many details but I have this giant big ongoing very dragged out problem where I'm from one country and my partner of 15 years is from another (Australia) and we have lived in his country since we met and have had three children together in that country. I have become more and more homesick over the years which has twice led us to try and move to my country buy both times immigration has been ridiculous (its the uk) and we have had to move back to Australia. We are now in debt from the second try and emotionally its been a very hard couple of years to try and recov...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Will It Ever Change? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 9 2017 at 16:32 by English RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 9 2017 at 23:05

So me and my partner have been together for a year and half, we moved in pretty early on because of unforeseen sircumstances, we don't work, I'm on sick and he's on job seekers, however it's not bringing in enough money to have an actual life, I'm still young like I want to be doing things but we never can. He tells me how he will get a job, how he will do his drivers license so he can get a driving job, but nothing. When we argue and I mention it he used to say how I say things and don't do it (referring to my weight loss) but now I'm 3 months into doing something about that and he's still lo...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Move In With Me Anymore (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 29 2017 at 01:30 by Morning sunshine RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 9 2017 at 16:10

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 nearly 4 years, our relationship has always been pretty good. He lives in a flat, attached to his best friends parents house and I live in a rented house with my daughter. He has it quite easy, as his friends parents don't charge him much rent at all, its small, with one bedroom. My landlord is really not that great or approachable but I don't complain, to be honest as long as everything is working and it's not impacting me or my child, I'm not fussed. I do however, pay a lot of rent because of the area I live in and every year my landlord puts u...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category She Doesn't Want To Hurt Me (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 19:56 by dani.samani (alias modified to protect identity) RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jun 9 2017 at 08:32

story started 2 month ago when I met this girl. I really liked her after we talked, but then 2 days later I left the city but we were still communicating and our feelings to each other were growing and I realized that I really love her. she told me that she likes me and I told her the same as well and she even called me her soulmate she said she is the luckiest girl to have me, she said that she misses me and she can't stop thinking about me. after 1.5 month I asked her can you let me love you? and she she said yes , she said that she feels just what I feel but she never used the words.yesterd...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category What Is Wrong With My Wife? Please Help! (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Jun 3 2017 at 14:48 by BeingLimitless RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Soulmate / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jun 9 2017 at 08:20

married for 15 yrs and have 3 kids. A week ago she told me she's in love with someone else. This someone else turns out to be an individual who is famous and located across the world. She is into Wiccan type practices and says they communicate spiritually. He doesn't have any social media but she swears he has Twitter and FB. She says he leaves messages for her through Twitter and FB. She has already packed her bags and says he is coming to get her and our kids. All of this was out of nowhere. I'm really at a lost for words and would love any type of advice. I have no idea what to do. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Help! (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 8 2017 at 15:40 by Just a Guy RESPONDENTS: Gabbie / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jun 9 2017 at 07:44

This situation is simple: I have been dating this girl, and I really like Her, but she likes to hang out with her friends, many of which are guys. She has lots of ex's and she went to the graduation of one yesterday. Well, at this party when she happened to be alone with him he kissed her. She said she didn't kiss back, and she has no feelings for her but I have already had some trust problems with her. What do I do!?!?!...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Need An Emergency Dental Work (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 6 2017 at 10:43 by Rachael258 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao LAST POST: Jun 8 2017 at 18:41

Last night, I just broke one of a top front tooth into half. I had an appointment with an emergency dentist in Whitby( http://www.discoverydental.com/dental-services/emergency-treatment/ ) this morning and asked him about this then. He said that I would either need a dental extraction procedure or have a crown put on it. But I don't know if it is necessary to take a crown. Should I have my tooth completely removed or get a crown? Getting the crown would be more expensive than taking the complete tooth off. It even hurts very badly when I eat something hard or even when my tongue touches i...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Toxic Mother. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 6 2017 at 22:34 by ICantWin RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Jun 8 2017 at 17:15

So. Me and SO are getting the keys to our own place tomorrow. First time for us both and yeah it's exciting! I had the appointment conformation email about a week ago and went from there. Most of my family knows, no big deal. I got in (still living with mother) from being out today, she asks if I'm in work tomorrow to which I reply "No we're getting the keys tomorrow remember?" THEN... her answer is "I don't know, you don't f*****g tell me anything! I'm always the last to know! You take the f*****g p***!! I'm sick of it!" I then said that I'm not going down this road and I could have sworn...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Is Ending And I Lost The Faith Of My Wife (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 05:13 by stupidhusband RESPONDENTS: Amaze0707 / Melissa1512 LAST POST: Jun 8 2017 at 07:15

I have been married for over ten years and each and every year our marriage and friendship grows apart. I want to save my marriage as I love my wife so dearly but I am afraid our troubles are all my fault and it may be too late to fix. Looking back now I realize that my relationship with my parents caused great strife in my marriage. It started with small things, like the first time I brought my then girlfriend to meet my father. The entire time I basically ignored my wife for other company in the room. Over the years situations would come about and I would subconsciously take the side of...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I'm Horrible At Friendships And Strong Bonding (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 18:38 by archiguy RESPONDENTS: AloneatMidnight / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 7 2017 at 23:01

I am very bad at making friends. Well, it becomes friendship and healthy colleagues relationship thing only at workplace or school but I've never been a person whom people will call up and say "Hey! Let's go to a movie. Let's go to XYZ city or park or hangout zone." I am realizing that all along my life, I've been ignoring this thing about me and staying happy with whatever I've had or done but I turned 27 last year and now this trait about me is disturbing me a lot. And, no, I hardly ever get into heated arguments or fights with people. It's all smooth and easy with them. But there's no b...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Have Some Crazy Relationship Problems, And Don't Know What To Do! (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 6 2017 at 20:43 by BKJaxta RESPONDENTS: Mou83 LAST POST: Jun 7 2017 at 10:17

This may be long, but please hear me out. To start off with, I recognize that I am part of the problem in this issue. I have anxiety and depression that I battle with, and I know that makes me hard to live with, especially when I am having a bad day. I do take medication for these problems, and I see a therapist on a regular basis, but I have always refused to say negative things about my wife and family because I have always been afraid if I started, I wouldn't be able to stop. Because of this, my therapist thinks my wife and in-laws are the best thing I have going for me, so when I tried sha...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category To Be Honest, I'm Not Sure What I Need... (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 10:09 by Emotions4Days96 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 23:58

I understand that I'm young and I have a lot going for me as it stands right now. I guess I tend to feel a little guilty when I act like I need help or think that I'm too stuck to get myself out of the situations I've created. I've always just pushed things back because I know that there are people going through so much worse, and that my little problems don't compare to a fraction of those going on in the world around us. I do, however, believe that people are conditioned to certain things in their lives which make even small things seem big on a personal level. For a long time I've felt l...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Advice Needed. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 6 2017 at 03:16 by Kemmy RESPONDENTS: ICantWin LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 22:43

I have been with my partner for 3 years living separately and had a great sex life anyway about 2 mths ago he got sick with some bacteria he caught from a prostuite I caught it off him as well. Then after much talking he said it was a one off we stayed together then he caught another bacteria that he gave to me we both ended up in hospital taking experimental antibiotics to kill it. I've always been open and honest with him and asked if he was seeing anyone else which is swore he wasn't. We are currently still together I know I sound like a fool I still love him even after nearly killing us. Y...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is Taking Care Of An Annoying Neighbor A Good Anniversary Gift? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 6 2017 at 02:00 by AloneatMidnight RESPONDENTS: Mou83 LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 16:42

Hi everyone, thanks for reading. My boyfriend and I are about to celebrate our 2 year anniversary. We don't live together. His next-door neighbor is a complete jerk. One of the things he has done is put an object against his fence, blocking water flow from my boyfriend's yard into his own, which was the builder's intention. Now when it rains, my boyfriend's backyard floods a little. He's worried that one day it'll rain hard enough for water to enter his house (it almost has before). He's tried talking to the neighbor, and he's enlisted the help of the home owner's association, but nothing h...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Trying To Find My Place Somewhere Im Not Wanted (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 6 2017 at 03:53 by meme01 RESPONDENTS: sosavvy LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 15:55

Well my relationship is fairly new and just for that reason i feel like we shouldnt be going through some of the things that we are. he is sometimes verbally abusive. i dont have any family where i live so im constantly living in fear that i could just be kicked to the curb with no help or means to get help and he does threaten to kick me out. i have caught him texting/calling other girls. never any physical contact but to me that is still cheating but he always finds a way to make it my fault. i have never been suicidal but i have asked God to just take me because im so tired of being dep...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Dont Know If I Can Stay With My S/o. I Despise His Brother!! (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jun 5 2017 at 17:50 by ICantWin RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 15:12

** I'm sorry for how long it is** So. This all started about a year ago. I moved in with my boyfriend and his family. It was going well for a few weeks then his brother started getting more and more volatile. He would make jibes at me and constant derogatory comments. None of which my boyfriend would say anything about. I started a new job and made a male friend there, my boyfriend didn't have any issues with this to begin with. Then out of nowhere his brother comes in and starts calling me a "mind fuck" and a "psycho" and took it upon himself to scream at me telling me how I'm a who're...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Boyfriend Trouble (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 16 2017 at 21:16 by Xxxxxx12345 RESPONDENTS: LongSummersAndEves / Poppy Seed / Cheese LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 13:14

Recently I've discovered that some members of my boyfriends family do not like me.. for no reason what so ever I'm a nice, genuine, kind girl but I 've heard them pick on me behind my back then act nice to my face, my boyfriends told me stuff they've said about me to him, now I can't stand seeing my boyfriend around them knowing what they said about me and him, I'm so angry but it's almost as if im jelous were constantly arguing over pathetic things but the real reason is his family:( what do I do? ...

Bereavement advice forum category advice forum category Best Friend Passed Away & His Partner Is Disturbing Me (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jun 5 2017 at 14:18 by Mou83 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 09:45

I lost my best friend to cancer on April 20th, we had been close for 8 years practically inseparable until he began to see a new man 3 years ago. I had met up with them both a few times but always found his partner to be quite arrogant and bolshy but made the effort for my best friend. Upon losing my best friend suddenly after he returned from along haul flight and became very sick, his partner and I swapped number in case he needed my support with the funeral. I am also close with my best friend's family, inparticular his 2 older sisters, I helped them with some arrangements. On the day of th...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is Reconciliation Possible After Long Time Separation (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jun 5 2017 at 20:25 by atfirstdawn569 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 23:43

I left my spouse after 19 years, now I want to work on getting our connection back. How can we do this? We were separated off/ onfor the last six years. We both still have feelings for one another....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Husband Changed Password On His Phone (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 04:06 by Emmy512 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 23:41

I'm going to try not to make this post too long. I'm going to start out with saying that I am a very insecure person. Lately my husband has been acting a little strange. He's a a farmer so he basically leaves the house in the morning before I even get up and doesn't come home sometimes until I am already in bed. We have always been very open with each other as far as passwords to our social media accounts and on our phones. He has not been wanting to spend very much time with me lately and when I picked up his phone earlier today I couldn't get on it because he changed his password. When I ask...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Past Issues Problem (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 31 2017 at 23:01 by heiress_reine RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 12:54

My man likes to fight me on everything and he his the insulting type(my family included) I don't know how to calm him down and we have been together for 8years. I need answers before I leave this relationship cause I feel like a savage ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category In-laws (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 18 2017 at 00:38 by RaRa124 RESPONDENTS: Teddy / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 12:39

So my OH and I have been together 3 years. Start of our relationship my MIL had little to do with us. My OH had demons of his own which we worked through with the help of my family. My MIL had no involvement whatsoever. We had my LO last year and then moved to the same area as my MIL. I have suffered with PND which was made worse by alcohol which I've since cut back on. However, my MIL is now aware of all the problems we've had and has said some pretty nasty things about me. His sisters are both judgemental too. They all pretend to understand but in reality they've asked OH to lea...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Need Advice...can Anyone Relate? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 22:46 by SophiesChoice RESPONDENTS: Floorguy / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 12:29

Hello all, I was looking online for a forum where I could vent my situation and hopefully be offered an opinion and/or advice to help me. I am 56 and my husband is 11 years older than I am. We have been married for 7 years now. Before we got married we were both in pretty good shape. I hit the gym regularly and was a size 2. He was not actively working out, but was only about 10 lbs. overweight. Here is the situation. Over the last couple of years both of us have gained weight. I had not been going to the gym anymore and he would inevitably bring home junk food, i.e. pizza, fried chicke...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Very Complicated Situation-marriage In Trouble (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 01:39 by GummieB3ar RESPONDENTS: SophiesChoice / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 12:00

My husband and I have had a rough couple of weeks. He came out as bi about a month ago to me and told me that he needed to explore and find himself and the only way to do that would be to have sex with men, which I sort of understand and may be ok with under certain circumstances. The problem is he said that he was going to do that whether it was ok with me or not and would not agree to sit down and discuss it and the options and come up with a solution that we both could agree on. He also brings up many issues from the past two years, some true others not, and states them as the reason h...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I End This Relationship? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jun 3 2017 at 01:00 by JinDaHouse RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 01:12

I have been dating a female for about 8 months, this is after I finally physically separated from my ex wife - I have dated off and on for years even while being married and living in the same house as my ex - we lived in the same house for financial reasons and were comfortable with each other dating that time. So I finally moved out a year ago and wanted to have some time to myself, get to know myself, have fun and be free. I reconnected with my girlfriend and we've been together for 8 months but I'm feeling like I want to go out and explore more, date other people, etc. This is a fairly cas...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Mother In Law Drama (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 31 2017 at 07:07 by Fraber RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:50

I have always had a decent relationship with my soon to be mother in law, she was always there to talk and there were things that I went to her to talk about when I didn't tell anyone else - including my concern that I was becoming depressed. Time to time she could be very dramatic and too involved..but I always overlooked this. From the time me and my fiancee started dating when we were in high school (around 5 years ago), people around town told me and my parents to RUN. I always stood up for her and said that they didn't know her. My fiancee and I have been engaged for about 15 months an...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Would You Think And Do If This Happened? See Below (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 30 2017 at 08:46 by Chris E. RESPONDENTS: Nick0016 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:23

I had something (married for 16+ yrs.) Happen. Please tell me what you would do and think. Here it is: What if you looked in your wifes purse and in the bottom found fishnet stockings and a couple of hair bands, the ones used to put hair in like a pony tail for instance? There was a good explanation given why they were in there, but I want to know opinions from as many people that will answer. Tks. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Problems With My Neighbours (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 20 2017 at 12:41 by tyco RESPONDENTS: whoami / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:21

I live with my mother, grandma and my stephdad in a small house. We have 2 dogs and 2 cats. I am 17 and almost 18, but I have been traumatized because of my neighbours. It is going on almost my whole life and I just never really talked about it besides my own family or friends. I never even talked detailed about it, so that's why I started searching on the internet for a website to clear my mind. My neighbours don't like us. We don't know why. Maybe it's because they wanted to live here, but we were here first. They treathen us by telling our time will come, they call the police for bad "s...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Ear Piercing (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 30 2017 at 17:15 by Emmajm RESPONDENTS: teddy / lily31 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:12

My mam and dad finally let me get my ears pierced, I'm fourteen and today me, my mam and sister went to get it done. I was well nervous as I don't like pain and in my head I told myself it was going to really hurt. I asked my mam and sister what it was like and told them I was nervous but they told me to get on with it and ignored me. I was shaking so bad and I freaked out whenever the women came near me with the machine thing. My mam stood there looking really angry but didn't say anything. The women asked her to come and hold my hand but she wouldn't, if she did I would of been ok. In the en...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category I Gave My Son Up For Adoption In My Youth: Considering Contacting, Feel Shame. (Posts: 6)
CREATED: May 10 2017 at 08:07 by whoami RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq / bunnyhabit / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:02

When I was approximately the age my son is now, 24, I got a real nice Morman girl pregnant. I did not want a kid, and refused to have anything to do with the pregnancy. As the pregnancy progressed she developed a relationship with her co-worker who I ran into at a bar one night towards the end of the pregnancy. We had words and out of no where I 'told him if he was not going to be there for the kid then I would' and I said that in front of a table of his peers. (Those are the best words I think I have ever said) Honestly I'm not sure I meant it, but in the end I think I would have done the ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Troubled Marriage. Considering Divorce Or Separation. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 31 2017 at 13:47 by Ursula RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 01:51

I'm having a lot of issues with my husband... Before we were married, I lived on my own and supported myself, debt free, with two horses. I have and still do make more money than he does. He moved in with me and brought a lot of student debt and a car payment into the marriage. I wasn't worried about the money because we loved each other and I was happy to work with him to get out of debt. What's getting to me now is his attitude. I stopped taking riding lessons, stopped going to shows, and for three years, I kept the horses on my grandfathers farm in exchange for labor instead of money...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Stuck Nowhere (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 24 2017 at 20:05 by Marco RESPONDENTS: Teddy LAST POST: May 31 2017 at 06:47

Hi people! My name is Marco and i live in Italy, i'm 30 and i've lost the control of my life. Some months ago i tried to move to another country, to stay with my girlfriend and her daughter, i thought i was ready to make this big change, but with the time passing by i felt like in a cage and i started showing the bad side of my personality, obviously this cracks the relationship with my gf. Daily fights for stupid matters, so i went back to Italy. Despite that the relationship didn't finish and we started to live this story on distance. The biggest problem lies in me, one year ago i had a...

Work advice forum category advice forum category Got A New Job Opportunity. Not Sure If I Should Take It. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 24 2017 at 10:35 by Vildar RESPONDENTS: Teddy LAST POST: May 31 2017 at 06:21

I have been given an offer for a new job in another company. As an IT Support helpdesk. It pays more than i get now, and theres option for training and progression. I would be mostly on the phones to begin with. I am currently in a school as an IT Technician. I do pretty much a bit of everything. Phone support, going to the classrooms to solve the issues. I also get the school holidays off, mostly. My problem is i feel insanely guilty for even thinking of moving. Everyone is saying i should take the job,(Family) Yet everyone i work with is almost judging me for wanting to progress. I...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Issue With My Male Roommate (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 27 2017 at 18:01 by Foreverwalkalone RESPONDENTS: Nick0016 LAST POST: May 31 2017 at 04:26

My roommate and i moved in together a few months ago. Hes a great guy, knows how to have fun and hes so nice. Ive had a small crush on him for a minute... The problem is hes reserved and vague and never gives you a proper answer to anything... One night we were playing craps with the neighbor who is a bisexual man in a relationship. We finished a bottle of whisky and various truths came out which resulted in a threesome. My roommate waa not comfortable with the guys advance, i wasnt comfortable either. I feel like the neighbor took advantage of our impaired judgement. Since then this gu...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Felt Sad For A Long Time (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 29 2017 at 23:37 by primarch RESPONDENTS: Nick0016 LAST POST: May 31 2017 at 04:16

Hi, so it all kinda started at college over a year ago, I was applying to join the army and started seeimg this girl and I.got close to her, id seen her for maybe nearly 6 months, just before that point however my army application got frozen and she was going off to uni far away and I knew it was going to end and all my friends were leaving,I.got kinda depressed and she left for uni started seeing someone else after like 2 months amd I was still waiting at home alone for the army, I.couldnt handle her not being around, I.started argueing and ruined our friendship even tho.she was always going ...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Boyfriend Refuses To Get His Hurting Tooth Checked (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 28 2017 at 04:11 by Fangs RESPONDENTS: manalone / lily31 / ANOTHER VIEW LAST POST: May 29 2017 at 12:32

It's been bugging him for two weeks now and the pain is only getting worse but no matter how hard I try I can't get him to visit a dentist. He says that he doesn't want to spend money on it and that he's scared the dentist will be mean to him. He claims that he's not scared of pain though. I promised to comfort him and send him all the way to the patient chair and back home, and he still refuses to go there. I have also tried to explain that he shouldn't take mean words seriously if he hears some, that everyone has had a bad tooth in their life and that the toothache is not his fault. H...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Getting Through A Breakup (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 28 2017 at 19:38 by kelsey1991 RESPONDENTS: Sally Amorim / manalone / ANOTHER VIEW LAST POST: May 29 2017 at 12:16

This problem is nothing special but very difficult to deal with so I am looking for any perspective I can get. I was dating someone for almost two years, when he suddenly dumped me. I could tell for the last three weeks of the relationship that he wasn't very happy, but it still felt sort of out of the blue. He said I was too emotional and that he just wasn't happy. I'm struggling though because when we were together, our relationship was intensely loving. The things we would say to each other and the things we felt for each other seemed to me to be very rare and I always felt very lucky, and ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Oblivious To This Jerk?? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 16 2017 at 17:58 by hippieluv RESPONDENTS: LongSummersAndEves / Sally Amorim LAST POST: May 28 2017 at 22:06

Basically this guy I'm seeing has been acting weird lately. He's been hanging out with some really douchey people, which I made it clear I don't want to be around them. Seems like he's been intentionally trying to test me and make me annoyed lately and I don't understand why- I'm super nice and respectful to him. Last week after we had sex, I had to ask why he never touches me- I asked if he thought I was repulsive or gross or something because he literally never makes me feel good about myself or touches me or cuddles, etc. I guess I get it if he's not really into all that but then he told me...

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