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Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryDangerously Flirtacious (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jul 8 2018 at 07:16 by ls255 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Scopes / bunnyhabit / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jul 17 2018 at 23:19

I have been married for 30 years and have cheated on my husband about 25 years ago i find myself flirting with one of my coworkers and this person was flirting back i have noticed that now this coworker has been very mean to me and i think is spreading something throughout our workplace because everyone has been shunning me or avoiding me i have tried ignoring it and even changing my work shifts to avoid working the same time as this person but i still cant shake these feelings...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryWork Issues (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jul 13 2018 at 20:04 by Anonymous79 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 16 2018 at 11:59

My bf has been with a company for 3-3 1/2 years now. He works long hours and always comes home stressed and aggitated. A couple of months ago his bosses told him they wanted to raise his pay since he was doing so well and their was a promotion available in his division. He and a handful of his other coworkers got a cost of living raise of $1 a week after this and he thought he was getting the promotion as well. Instead a coworker that had just been out for a week in jail got the promotion and the pay raise. Not too long after their was a higher promotion available that only he and a new worker...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryWorking With My Friend Is Causing Trouble (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jul 13 2018 at 19:16 by Royal baby RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 14 2018 at 14:10

Hi everyone Recently my good friend of over 15 years has started working in the same office as me we have worked together in the same building for a long time but never in the same office, she is just providing cover as we have people on holiday or off sick, initially I was pleased that she was covering as she is a hard worker and very reliable One day last week my supervisor left written instructions for me and my friend as she was out of office at a meeting,there is a ruling that during our working hours the telephone has to be manned at all times, and this day my friend was asked to c...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHaving "a Right" Over Someone? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jul 13 2018 at 13:30 by Yenilav RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 14 2018 at 13:59

Hello, I'm new here and just looking for advice in my relationship. I have a long-distance relationship with a young man my age. He's turkey, currently living there, and I'm swedish. We sometimes clash over values that are very different in our different cultures, seeing as my culture is very "western", independent and open. His culture can sometimes lean more to the eastern, more traditional and family-oriented. Another issue we have is a language barrier, and it's easy to misunderstand each other. Usually this is worked on and solved, but this time I don't know if the issue at hand is a m...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryBeing Dumb (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jul 5 2018 at 19:33 by urgirl RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq / Tulowitz / Royal baby LAST POST: Jul 13 2018 at 19:22

I started chatting to this boy a lot online, for the past 5 or so months. I’ve never met him, have no idea what he looks like, he lives in America (I live in the UK), and he’s 23 years old (I’m only 16). I know I’ve been dumb by doing this and continuing to do this, because I am just setting myself up to be hurt. I don’t understand why I seem to like him so much, but I do and it’s difficult and I’m not sure what to do. I love talking to him, so much, but I don’t want myself to be hurt anymore. Should I just end it now? Any help or advice would be hugely appreciated, I...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryTrust (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Jul 11 2018 at 11:54 by 2 soft RESPONDENTS: lily31 / bunnyhabit / Soulmate / susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jul 12 2018 at 14:34

I caught my partner of 12 years outside late at night texting someone he said he was not but I had a feeling after being cheated on by my last 2 partners, he was lying so I checked his phone when he was asleep and saw a number of messages to a number (no name) about how he had met up with another woman and he has feelings for her,I confronted him and he said the texts are a set up that he knows I have been checking his phone so he got a female friend of his to put them on to catch me out,the same phone he has said many times he has nothing on it to hide so he does not care who checks it,total...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship Advice (Posts: 51)
CREATED: Apr 16 2018 at 13:52 by SuperFrank8 RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / susiedqq / Hextall / SuperFrnk8 / 20Problems / skinnygirl / Soulmate / Steven Bradford / MamaBear LAST POST: Jul 12 2018 at 02:26

Good afternoon everyone! I am looking for some advice, so all thoughts welcome! I am in my mid-40s and met a lady of a similar age online 3 weeks ago, and we started talking on the phone almost immediately - we got on pretty well, had a good chat. I left it a couple of days before calling again - she didn't answer the call, but I got a text saying she wasn't up for playing games, that she has two kids, works full time, doesn't have a lot of time or money and as long as I understood that we could keep talking. I replied that I liked her and wanted to see where things go, so we carried on ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents Split Up (Posts: 351)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal LAST POST: Jul 12 2018 at 01:36

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs The Grass Greener? (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jul 3 2018 at 01:22 by Qellie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bunnyhabit / UngaurdedSpeech LAST POST: Jul 11 2018 at 04:55

I have the most fabulous husband, he’s fun, handsome, from a great family, works hard, great lover etc etc. Unfortunately the most unthoughtful man ever. We have been married 9 years, I have always known he wasn’t that romantic type but only recently it is getting to me. These may sound like little things but he’ll forget Mother’s day/ birthday cards, never buys me flowers even though I tell him i’d Love a bunch on occasion. He’ll make himself a brew and not ask me, he’ll go to the shop and forget everything I have asked for, he’ll just take the tv remote and say “ we’re ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryLazy Brother In Law (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jul 5 2018 at 18:55 by Isobel RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq / Bumble LAST POST: Jul 11 2018 at 03:07

Not long ago, my mother made a very negative statement about my brother in law. After a weekend visit to my sisters house she told me my brother in law is a lazy, fat, slob and she wishes my sister would leave him. My mother is not perfect, she gossips and has controlling issues, and so I told her not to be so judgemental. My sister is the bread winner in her family, she works hard and does very long hours, her husband used to worked, but after their youngest was born they decided he would become a househusband. my brother in law had given this big speech about how he'd look after the ch...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryLiving A Double Life And It Needs To End! (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jul 9 2018 at 15:33 by redland RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jul 10 2018 at 05:18

I’m typically a very decisive individual. I am already past middle age and I have been a widow for about 7 years. The first man I dated is someone I knew almost 30 years before my late husband passed and he also knew my late husband. It has been a difficult relationship because I haven't been comfortable with what I see as his financial irresponsibility. Needless to say this is in direct contradiction to the way I handle my financial affairs. In addition unlike me, he doesn’t have much money to his name and he is already collecting social security. While he is also working that helps i...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I Be Okay With This? (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jul 9 2018 at 05:13 by Zer000 RESPONDENTS: Isobel / lily31 / susiedqq / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jul 10 2018 at 05:07

This morning my girlfriend, her 20 yr old daughter and myself had a terrible disagreement. I made plans with my girlfriend a week prior to take my Dad to breakfast for his birthday at 9am the following Sunday. We agreed and all was well. This morning I woke and was talking with my partner when she said she was taking her daughter to the gym at 8am. The evening before we discussed that her daughter might go later as she doesn't drive. I was upset and said I thought that we had made plans. My girlfriend said that she had spoke with her daughter and that they decided she would only work out for...

Alcohol advice forum category advice forum categoryHe Believes I Cheated (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Jul 7 2018 at 20:09 by Lost Girl RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bunnyhabit / Isobel LAST POST: Jul 9 2018 at 09:00

I’m a wife and a mother. I’m a neighbor and a friend. And I would never kiss or have sex with a man who isn’t my husband. I have a neighbor that I became friends with. He lives across the street with a few other guys. They’re good-hearted lads. And they’re respectful. I never had a problem with them. Whenever my husband was doing a night shift (and when my grandma was taking care of my baby), I would drink with my guy-neighbor and his friends. We had great talks and harmless fun. But one night, I drank far more beers than I could handle. I was at the neighbor’s house, having a ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryMy Husband Of 30 Years May Have Another Child!! (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Jul 6 2018 at 18:26 by Overwhelmed, silen RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 8 2018 at 22:04

Been married 30 years. 12 years ago my husband had a long distance affair with a woman in the same industry. I found out and confronted him. We have four children and at the time they were still fairly young. We stayed together. It has recently come to my attention that he may have had a child with this women. To make matters worse the child is only 8 which means he carried on the relationship after being confronted. They are no longer romantically involved for sure. I confronted him about being the father and he denied it. I contacted her and she also denied he was the father. Yet she has a...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex Vs Making Love (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jul 8 2018 at 06:56 by ssss RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 8 2018 at 21:49

The past two long-term boyfriends that I've had never made love to me.. they only ever wanted to have rough sex. My idea of making love is intimacy, looking into each other's eyes, going slowly, telling each other how much you mean to them and it's an outlet to express the way you feel towards someone. Am I wrong about this? How does making love feel like? Or does making love just have the same meaning as sex? The type of sex that I've had with my two boyfriends is doggy style, not looking into my eyes, and rough and just very porn like. I crave to make love and have intimacy, however this jus...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMasturbation Addiction (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Jul 5 2018 at 17:40 by Lovish RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jul 6 2018 at 05:14

I've doing a lot of handjob during last 12 years. Now it becomes an addiction. My body feel weakness. Please help to get out from here to my life....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryCheating On Husband And Best Friend (Posts: 9)
CREATED: Jul 4 2018 at 03:32 by bunnyhabit RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Scopes LAST POST: Jul 6 2018 at 04:41

last week my husband was in Korea to rap at a concert. i know very well he doesn't condone men in our home without him there. my best friend ex called me and ask if i could discuss how to charm my friend back to him? l told him my hubby was out of town on business so i could not have him in my home. we met at local coffee shop. i sat across from him and he immediately sat next to me and put his arm around my shoulder and rested his hand on my breast. he is much bigger than me. i pulled away and admonished him about going overboard in familiarity. he said he noticed i smiled sexy at him last ti...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryNeighbours (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Jul 3 2018 at 22:41 by Hbkay RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jul 4 2018 at 02:54

I have lived where I am for nearly 4 years and in the last year our neighbours have suddenly turned on us..... my main problem is the kids they don’t go to should be in school but they hang around all the time on bikes etc etc we keep out of their way.. but tonight they followed my OH home he’s Spanish they were shouting at him and intimidating him. It made him mad.... I went and spoke with them calmly asking what th problem was and I think I sorted it and hope they’d leave us be. But I am scared they will cause problems or follow one of us home as we work late........ I don’t want to ...