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Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs He Doing This To Hurt Me Or Is It For Real (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 13 2018 at 22:13 by Karen RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Oct 16 2018 at 20:50

I know this guy for 4 year over the year we hooked up spent the night with each etc.. then in August 2017 we started talking a got together..I spent 2 to 3 nights going to his and at weekends I've with parent and him his ..he's always respected me looked after me a would worry about me then in May I got a new job and I want to make it work as had a few problems with pervious job .. i always looked after him financial until he found a job he has bad confidence issues etc ... so I was meant to go to his 10 days ago to see him has it had been a week or to since I seen him .. i have let him dow...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes This Relationship Sound Like It Could Work? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 15 2018 at 13:33 by SundayThe26th RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Oct 16 2018 at 19:04

We are best friends, and have known each other online for over two years. We have quite a large age gap, but it hasn't been a problem as I haven't had much life experience compared to my peers and he is wise for his age, so it feels like we are much closer in age than we are. We are very close, and we text everyday for anywhere from two to five hours altogether. It has always been like this. We both have severe forms of social anxiety, and met on a forum for that. We decided a while ago that we wanted to be in a relationship with each other one day, which I have been very much looking forward ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend Is Having Doubts About Our Relationship. What Should I Do? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 16 2018 at 05:05 by Ladyhawk3328 RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Oct 16 2018 at 18:28

My boyfriend and I have been dating nearly 3 years, and living together 2 years, up until a few months ago. We have so much in common and have great chemistry, great sex, so many great times, but We had an argument that lead to a conversation about him having doubts. As you can imagine, it hit me very hard. He explained that sometimes he has thoughts about what his life would be like with someone else. But that the thoughts pass, and he still loves me and wants to be with me. His thoughts had become progressively worse for a few months and he doesn't know why he's having them. Currentl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy Was This Guy So Hurtful To Me? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 15 2018 at 22:50 by Ladybird RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Oct 16 2018 at 18:09

Hi I was on only two dates with this guy who I really thought seemed nice until the second date. We were kissing and then he went to finger me and it happened quite quick! It was quite painful I told him to stop as he was hurting me and he did then stop. I remember feeling really shocked because I didn't think he was going to do that and it happened quite fast. He exposed himself started feeling himself in front of me and started calling me useless because he wanted sex and I told him no. I had already told him I'm still a virgin he kept pressuring me to have sex saying I'm just afraid ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryLost, What Can I Do??? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 14 2018 at 19:41 by 70sgirl RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 15 2018 at 21:49

I am new here and hope I can find help. I have been married for over 30 yrs. our love life over the past almost 18 yrs has been rather poor. I now understand this is because my husband has chossen porn over me and our life together. I am not over weight and I work out, people have told me I am very pretty or beautiful, I feel ugly and fat as my husband no longer has sex with me. We have talked about this many times over the years, things would get better for awhile. Now that we are alone and on our own again I thought we could start living our life together free wheeling and fun ag...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryLonely (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 13 2018 at 23:59 by Lea.r RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 15 2018 at 13:33

How does one get over feeling so lonely?? It's so embarrassing to me to say but I have no school friends, no childhood friends. Nothing like that. I can't even say I have a best friend. I had 2 besties in high school but we got into a fight and the one ended our friendship which then made the other one end it as well. And during college I had friends but never stayed in contact. I always make friends but then once they leave or I leave, its over. And for 4 years, I was away a lot as I worked for a cruise line. Again I made some friends there and some I thought we would be besties fore...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHow Can I Get My Bf To Tell Me How He Feels About Me (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 15 2018 at 06:45 by Purplestar RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 15 2018 at 13:18

My bf is hard to talk to we been together for a yr ive never met his family just his aunt but he says that just him. We also dont go anywhere together we have never been on a date. But he is a homebody he like being in the house. But he said i act like we are married but cant tell me hoe. well how am i suppised to act?? I want to be with him forever! Idk he also isnt affectionate he only does it bc he knows i like it so when he holds me and kisses me i feel like hes only doing it bc i like it not bc he wants to. And he never really tells me im pretty idk maybe im being petty but i dont feel li...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHe’s Just Not That Into Me..... (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 14 2018 at 05:41 by CactusFlower35 RESPONDENTS: 70sgirl / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 15 2018 at 13:13

My husband and I have been married for 16 years and have 4 wonderful children.We have had our ups and downs but in general have had a really good relationship. A little more than a month ago, I had a stillborn at 6 months pregnant. It was an incredibly trying time for both of us. I know I wouldn’t have made it through without the support of my husband. He’s been amazing. I’ve always been really independent and it was difficult for me to rely on him so much. It seems that something changed in our relationship during this time. He is completely uninterested in the sexual aspect of our re...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHow Do I Tell My Husband About His Annoying Habit? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 11 2018 at 12:12 by helenwheels RESPONDENTS: 70sgirl / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 15 2018 at 13:05

A bit of background: My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. We have two school-age children. We get on well, but there is no passion in our relationship (but that is not a great issue for me at the moment). We are comfortable discussing anything, except our own relationship! This is my problem: Over the past year or so, my husband has developed a slight speech impediment that didn't used to be there. He kind of whistles or makes a 'sh' sound when pronouncing words with a 'ss' sound in them. I am not sure of the cause of this, but I'm sure he could fix it as he never used to ...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed Advice To Accept Ex (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 18 2018 at 21:17 by luckyjohn89 RESPONDENTS: 70sgirl LAST POST: Oct 15 2018 at 11:52

Hello everyone, Greetings. I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for more than 3 years. We are happy till now. I already know that she suffers from OCD. Recently she confessed that she shared her bed with more or less 5-6 guys including my friends in the last 2 years. She is also in a serious relationship with one guy. But she is in dilemma whom to choose. I understand that she is suffering from sexual OCD in which people get sexual attraction to friends, less known people etc. Now, she wants to continue my relationship after realizing her mistakes. She says that she wi...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs Chemistry Necessary To A Relationship? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 14 2018 at 18:12 by tresmarias RESPONDENTS: Karen LAST POST: Oct 14 2018 at 19:27

Greetings... Im in a long distance relationship right now for a month. Im a filipina, he is german. We are both on our early 50's. This guy is very kind. Very calm, patient, honest, starightforward, responsible. I can say 70% of what im looking for a guy is with him. I know he is serious about marriage and i know he loves me. The problem is with me. As the days goes by i already find it boring while im talking to him. Im no longer excited for his calls and messages. Maybe because his topic does not interesting to me like politics, climate change, history, world war 2, etc... I tried diverti...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryDepressed Husband Admits Cheating (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 16 2018 at 12:38 by Walker19 RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Oct 14 2018 at 12:21

My husband and I have been together 5 years and married for one. He has very recently been diagnosed with depression. Earlier this week he left me a letter telling me that when we first started dating (before we married) he cheated on me twice (kissing random girls- the first was a very drunken mistake the second was trying to impress his boss at a work party) I obviously was devastated, felt betrayed and angry that he couldn't even tell me this to my face and that he kept it from me for so long. He told me in the letter that the reason he was telling me as that he had hit an 'all ti...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHow To Find A Partner (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 12 2018 at 09:54 by Lydia Dinga RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Richard B LAST POST: Oct 13 2018 at 07:57

Embarrassing question but need advice. I am 26 years old and still single. My friends are getting married or having babies and I can't even get a date. I have always been insecure about my Looks, body as I am quite overweight and have big teeth almost horse like. I overcompensate by pretending to be super confident but I have very low self esteem. I am scared nobody will ever want to date me long term as they can see through my insecurities and I get gratification from my youtube subscribers to make me feel good about myself. But then I remember that it's not me they like its the image I p...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categorySlowly Drifting (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 12 2018 at 07:11 by Yourmain_void RESPONDENTS: ali312 LAST POST: Oct 12 2018 at 23:15

Hey everyone. I'm her cause I just feel stuck at this point . Me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years now, we haven't always communicated correctly or been the best to each other, but we have been slowly getting through it together. Lately I've been feeling like my boyfriend is very insensitive to my feeling. He does certain things like snapping his teeth, sighing in exhaustion, and being super frustrated and snappy when I'm upset about something and start crying . The arguments always end in my boyfriend believing that he either needs to be right or I need to be right . He either...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy Brother In Law Is A Compulsive Liar And A Psychopath. Help! (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Oct 4 2018 at 19:31 by catty RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 12 2018 at 12:51

My brother in law is crazy and I need your kind advice on how to deal with him. Both my husband and his parents are in complete denial though, which means I am in a position where I need to see him every so often and socialize with him. The first night I met him, he punched my husband, who can't harm a fly, and his girlfriend tried to hit me when I tried to intervene. This was my first impression of this fool. Just so you have a small glimpse of what he's like, he made his parents move house for him, he got involved with a girl who had a dangerous family, so the whole family had to move...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryMany Dates, No Partner. Can You Spot A Way To Break My Life Pattern Change That? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 11 2018 at 02:17 by BuilderRothJ RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 12 2018 at 03:24

I've only had one relationship that was very important to me. She broke up with me over a year ago and I am still heavily affected by it. My counselor says it could be a problem for another year or two. I was in love. At the end of college, I started dating a girl who I knew for two years. I really like her. We have long conversations and physical intimacy. However, I started my professional career and she moved to another state to finish college. I spent the last month taking ballroom dancing lessons to prepare for a very special weekend. She knew all about it. But she canceled last minut...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryHorrendous Anxiety Over Making Out With Someone Else Before Things Got Serious (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 11 2018 at 08:08 by avuda RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 12 2018 at 03:19

Hi I am a 22 year old female from Australia. I am suffering from seriously severe anxiety over something. My good uni friend asked me out on a date earlier this year (June). I was hesitant because I was unsure we would be compatible and unsure about dating someone in the cohort (we are only 120 people, we see each other all the time), but eventually agreed because I did like him. We went on three dates before I had a trip overseas, the first of which had a little bit of hugging involved and he kissed me at the end of it. However, the second and third were suddenly cold physically (I did no...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryParents Split Up (Posts: 405)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal LAST POST: Oct 11 2018 at 23:48

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed Advice! (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Oct 9 2018 at 20:03 by Ash_97 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 11 2018 at 20:36

I need advice. I was talking to a guy. We both stares liking each other. He said he wanted to take our friendship forward but I said I wanted to take things slow. He gave his number. Now he has blocked me on ig. He thinks that I don't trust him. Should I call him? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryA Red Flag Or Just Anxiety? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 8 2018 at 20:23 by wondering212 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 11 2018 at 13:10

I lost my husband 7 years ago and needless to say, it was and continues to be traumatic. He was my best friend, spouse and all of the rest. We built a beautiful life over almost 30 years with 2 beautiful children. I dated many people after the first year or so, but somehow it never feels right all of the time. By this I mean that I could enjoy myself for dinner and even a short trip with my partner but afterwards I'll always feel empty and anxious about moving forward in the future (long term, like rest of my life) despite how I cared for the person. One in particular has been someone I've...

Alcohol advice forum category advice forum categoryToday Was A Hard Day (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 11 2018 at 04:37 by sylvie RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Oct 11 2018 at 06:16

hello. I would just like to talk with someone...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryEmotionally Distraught, Fiance Wants To Be A Father Which I Can't Give Him. (Posts: 37)
CREATED: Sep 22 2018 at 17:45 by Labrnr RESPONDENTS: Trying2BOptomistic / Soulmate / lily31 LAST POST: Oct 10 2018 at 21:37

Hello, here is a bit of background. I am 43 years old and have 3 wonderful children, married and divorced twice. 2 years ago I reconnected with an old love 7 years younger. My intuition told me, it would not work because I had no interest in having more children and he may decide one day he does. I went against my better judgment, and believed him when he told me he would only ever want me and as long as we were together any need to be a father would be secondary to us being together. Fast forward 2 years, and lo and behold he has decided he cannot ignore this need any longer and althou...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryTrust Issues. (Posts: 4)
CREATED: Oct 8 2018 at 22:15 by Smileyface RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 18:39

My boyfriend (whom I met on a dating website) is a 56 year old and i am in my forties. We are getting on fine but recently I had access to his gmail and I had a quick scan over his emails ( I know I should't have). However I found various emails to 20 something year old girls and one in particular from Russia that he had built up a relationship with and was planning on meeting with her etc. These emails were all before he and I met so I am not planning on saying anything about them. I also know I shouldn't have read them however I am wondering should I be worried that he was contacting these m...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryLost (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Sep 23 2018 at 02:05 by 07020yzelle RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 14:28

A few weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me saying that she gradually lost feelings and wants to have a chill relationship rather than a committed one. I didnt take it well in the first few days, I cried multiple days and contacted her multiple times to try to grasp the situation. It was hard to understand and to accept it because we went through two years together. We had many up and downs together and I genuinely thought we had a future together because she thought so too. I catch myself reading our old texts, letters that she wrote me and pictures of us together. It breaks my heart and I...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship Gone (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 1 2018 at 07:44 by Lakeside RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 14:25

Hey I’m new here and I feel my relationship is over. On reflection I guess I took a chance on someone who I thought had been unlucky in relationships but after some years together, I see differently. Everything was amazing and we were spending lots of fun times together, but earlier this year he said he needed a little space to be around friends etc. I didn’t mind this and so over this year, we’ve both spent more time doing other things. His job also takes up a lot of time but he’d also told me this would tail off come winter. Now he’s saying we’ve drifted apart and have not...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryMade A Mistake And Need Help Fixing The Marriage (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 25 2018 at 17:38 by Somethingmore212 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 14:21

Me and my husband have been together 5 years but married for 2 years. He is military and I’m a stay at home mom to our 1 year old son. He was deployed and I went home for 5 months. We were in a really bad place and he was treating me badly and I think I felt trapped so I cheated and he found out. I know it’s no excuse but I did what I did and now we’re in real trouble. The guy used to be his friend for a period of time. I’m trying to hardest to try and move past it but he goes back and forth and barely talks to me or acknowledges me half the time unless it’s to ask me to clean or abo...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryGay Work Colleague Outing Me To Everyone Else (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 6 2018 at 15:41 by DomJollie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 14:16

As a discreet gay guy at work (I am not discreet outside of work) I recently chatted briefly on Grindr with a guy at my workplace. Now, it was just chat, not "chatting up" or anything, but seeing as I don't usually speak to him anyway (it's a large workplace) it could be seen as a bit weird I guess. Anyway, the chat was pretty cordial, and he was surprised that I was gay. He even said things like "youre attractive" etc., although I don't think in a flirty way. However, literally the next day at work, everybody now seems to think I am a gay guy in the closet. All of his closest friends lo...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryIs This A Bad Idea For Me To Approach Her With? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 7 2018 at 14:33 by Andrew RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 14:09

Me & this girl have been talking for a month. She’s 25 and I’m 27. We’ve had a lot of fun so far & have been pretty intimate but were still in the talking phase. But in the last 2 days we’ve had these little disputes. We had one on friday, made up early saturday then she got upset about something later on in the same day & said she needed space around 6:30pm. I sent her 2 texts shortly after that saying I understood that she needed space & to text me when she’s ready but to be honest I’m really stressing out cause any other time she’s needed space it’s only been a few hours but...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryStood Up On Third Date After Confirming An Hour Back (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 9 2018 at 06:15 by MlleWanderlust RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 14:00

I recently met this Iraqi guy on tinder (he said he got divorced about 1.5 years back and I've never been married). Our second date was great but I saw he didn't have my number saved and he says my name was tough for him to spell. He asked me when he could see me again and said we would meet "tomorrow". 3 days gone no signs of any texts/calls so I sent him a casual "thanks for the coffee" text to which he said "No problem my queen, how's your day blah blah, what are you doing tonight ". When I said I didn't have anything plannes yet and asked what he was doing he went on radio silence ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryDon't Know What To Do (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 9 2018 at 11:21 by rainbowfrog345 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 13:56

I am in high school and I just started dating this guy about a week ago. I thought I liked him, so I said yes when he asked me out. He is really sweet and always texts me the nicest things but I realized that I don't like him as a boyfriend. I just want to focus on school and my future right now. I don't want to date him anymore, but he always talks about how he's so lucky to have me and how happy he is now. I am afraid that I could really hurt his feelings if we break up, but I don't want this relationship to be anything more than just friends. I can't stay with him but I need a nice way to e...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryStay Or Go (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Sep 26 2018 at 08:49 by helpneeded RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 04:06

Me and my partner have been together for years. we don't have children together . but I have children from a previous realationship. He is wealthy and comes from a good family. I'm not wealthy but have enough to live. we have separate bank accounts and no plan to change it. he covers rent . and rego. I pay for food and gas and all the kids needs. my dad has become ill and recently separated . he has a child who is 11 in his care. my dad needs to go to hospital where he will stay for 4 weeks . he needs someone to look after the child while he is there. my partner told me he rather the kid went...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow To Get Out Of A Stressful Household (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 8 2018 at 09:16 by Anonymous79 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 03:58

Hi, I have been having issues with my bfs family and he has been super stressed out by them and his work. We are both still living with our parents as my bfs job doesnt pay enough and I'm still in college. My bf hasn't had the best life. His biological father walked out as soon as he found out his mom was pregnant, then his mother married his current dad who was formally addicted to drugs and alcohol. His dad had 2 children from a previous marriage and 2 after marrying my bfs mom. He completely disreguards the 2 from his other marriage. His dad is very egotistical and needs to have control of ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryBoomerang Son - Just Keeps Coming Back (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 8 2018 at 22:47 by Peacenik2 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 03:44

My wife and I have a son that is involved in a problematic marriage. Every few months for the past several years (he's been married about 10 years) his wife decides to kick him out. He comes and lives with us a few weeks or months and then she asks him to come back. At times on our exhortation he will go to counseling a few sessions and then quits. Both have been in counseling together but only short-term. My wife and I are in our mid-60s. She thinks we should continue allowing this but I feel that this cannot continue. Can you help?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm Overracting Or Should I Be Really Worried About My Boyfriend's Female Friend (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 6 2018 at 14:54 by MutedLandscape RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 18:27

Hi, I really need advice on my current relationship - I will be grateful for any comments, because my head is a mess and I don't know what to do. In short - we are together for about 1,5 year and live together for almost a year. My boyfriend is younger than me - four years younger and I'm 24 years old. He was always supportive, we have a lot in common, but somehow I don't feel somehow secure in our relationship. I am especially worried about his friendship with one girl - I'm not jealous or controlling type, and I would never ask him to stop seeing his friends or choose between them and me, bu...

Drug advice forum category advice forum categoryI Need Some Advice (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 1 2018 at 20:55 by Shygirl96 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 13:45

Ok so I'll start off with a little back story... I been friends with this guy for a while, 4 years almost... nice guy. We met at work, at the time he was getting over a break up, 6 year relationship and I had my own relationship problems. That's really how we bonded... I never showed any interest in him nor he with me, he was on and off with his girl. Anyway we got really close, started going out to clubs and bars, he was always very respectful. We had our drunk night where we had to get picked up, I got really drunk with him once or twice, like throwing up all over his truck drunk but h...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryLost And Confused. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Sep 27 2018 at 02:44 by Lea.r RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 13:33

Hi again!! I am back for some needed advice or suggestions even or maybe just to vent my frustrations out! Haha. I have received some GREAT advice from here before so it's a wonderful tool. Thank you. I won't bore you with the full story, you can search my name and see but ill recap it a bit! Basically, I have been dating my guy for close to 3 years. He is Indian. I am Canadian. We met during our time working for a cruise line. I left the job in 2016 and came back to Canada. He continued the job and we kept the relationship going through distance. In the beginning, we discussed everythin...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepressed And Need A Way Out (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 2 2018 at 16:43 by Saya RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 13:27

Hi. So here's the thing. I am suffering from depression since 4 years. But what I don't understand is that sometimes I feel so happy and motivated. I feel like I wanna do something with my life. And then sometimes I feel the exact opposite. Like I want to just give up and I feel like my life has been ruined and scarred. Like I am worthless and I shouldn't waste my time here. I don't know how to get out of it. I try to live my life the best I can. I try to make a lot of friends, do things I love and have fun. But it just keeps coming back, harder each time. It feels like it's laughing at me for...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryPartner Not Sure About Children (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 3 2018 at 06:49 by Summer1234 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 13:20

Hi there, I have been with my partner for 11 months. At the start of our relationship he would say things like. 'You'll make a wonderful mother' 'If I ever have kids....' He even rang me up drunk once and said ' do you want my babies, I get scared about thing but when they happen I know what I'm doing.' I want children for definite. It's important to me. Anyway, he moved in with me around 6 weeks ago and we have been arguing. He doesn't like some of my habits. And i don't like that he doesn't think of me in terms of making dinner and things for when I get home. I work longer sh...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryFlight Attendant (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 5 2018 at 21:39 by Lalabonita RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 12:56

Has anyone else made these terrible experiences like me? I hated being a flight attendant so much!! Its exhausting, they pay so bad, teamwork with different people is NOT possible. Shiftwork makes you tired, nightwork is literally the WORST!! people are mean and talk behind your back. Honestly you aint travelling, you accompany the flight and layovers are so short, you dont see anything. You cannot succeed in this field, the company treats employees bad!! And the job itself is just hard work, physically and mentally exhausting. They always critisize you and theyre never happy with you. Getting...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm Breaking And So Is Our Marriage. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 6 2018 at 04:10 by Lauren 08042018 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 12:51

My husband is a gamer. We recently got married and are trying to figure out how to balance the time we spend working, with the time we spend with each other, and the time he spends gaming. We started off with him only gaming every other night. It went well for awhile, but when he started gaming multiple nights in a row and not making up thr lost time with me we switched to him gaming 1/2 the night every night. It's not working either. He says that he will get off at a certain time that we agree upon before joining me in bed, but most of the time he games until morning and then sleeps until...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLiking A Flatmate Who Doesn’t Like Me Back. (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Sep 26 2018 at 06:19 by MM12 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 12:39

Hi everyone, I’m new here and just really need to talk about my problem as I feel like I have no where else to go. I started university 3 weeks ago and had to move into the university’s on-campus residence. I have 5 other flatmates (4 boys and 1 girl). Sometime during the first week we all went out and I kissed the girl who is my flatmate and when we got back we kissed some but we had to discuss what was going to happen with us. We decided to be friends as it wouldn’t work out with the whole flatmate dynamic - which is the best decision for everyone and I completely agree with it. As ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship Breakdown After Abortion (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Oct 4 2018 at 20:15 by Gav1 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 5 2018 at 04:19

Hi, my gf got pregnant and 4 weeks ago had an abortion.. we didn’t communicate properly and I said I didn’t want a baby in shock but days after I wanted her to keep the baby but didn’t say anything as I thought she wanted an abortion as she agreed when I said. Since the abortion she says she feels nothing for me anymore and doesn’t love me, she also said she’s feels guilty and hurt which I understand and I’ve told her o feel the same... she now knows I wanted to keep the baby but since has blocked me and stoped talking but is sending a few txts but it’s like we friends she’s ha...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum categoryShall I Give Him Another Chance? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 4 2018 at 12:48 by inlove123 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 5 2018 at 04:12

Hi I'm a 27-year-old female who has been single for around 5 years after the break up of a long-term relationship. Since then I have focused on myself and haven't really thought about pursing a relationship. I have also felt like I haven't met anyone during this time that I have been able to connect with or have feelings for. In December last year I decided that I was finally ready and joined a dating website, I met a guy who I hit it off with instantly. We went on our first date, after the date he sent me a message to say that he had not been long out of a relationship and didn...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWorried About My Cravings (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Oct 1 2018 at 14:30 by cryptic_cravings RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 4 2018 at 11:28

Hello, I've been looking for somewhere to discuss my problems and found this site today. Unfortunately I wrote my life story and then it didn't publish, so I'll start again and be brief. I am a 35, happily married woman, two children. Normal family life except that before getting married I was a bit wild and liked to be used. It left me with a craving that returns occasionally, to be humiliated, abused etc. These days I am happy for months, but eventually that craving comes back and has to be fulfilled. Obviously finding someone in everyday life presents problems with keeping it occasion...