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Money advice forum category advice forum category My Mum Is Taking My Wages From Me! (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 21 2017 at 23:46 by Katniipeverdeen RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2017 at 23:41

I'm nearly 18 and have worked since September 2015. Recently I have discovered that I am to receive a bonus in my next wage in which I was going to use to open a new bank account of which I will use to start saving up some money, this is much to my mothers dosmay. Since getting a job I have had to transfer a section of my wages (if not all) into an account attached onto my Mum's main bank account which I am not allowed to touch without a valid reason. Since finding out (Today - 21st May) she has been angry at the fact I want to keep my own money which I earn and I don't know what to do anym...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Help! Sister And Bestie Trouble (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 18 2017 at 23:05 by TheRef21 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2017 at 13:43

Hey all! Need help! Found my sister and best friend were chatting on Facebook. To cut a long story short he is 17 and she 15. They were trying to get me to have him round for a couple of days then push me out the way so they could go and gave sex! What should I do?! Help!!!...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum category Broken Dream Of Asian Gay, Education, Failure, Depressed (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 16 2017 at 15:41 by EricBlueSea RESPONDENTS: BLCKBUTRFLY / susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2017 at 02:30

so hello everyone. i don't even know where should I start from. I am from Asia, and from one on the developing country, Nepal. from my childhood I always had one dream. going abroad and enjoying my life to the fullest. i am gay. and it is nearly impossible to live a life as a homosexual in here. so all my life i dreamed of going to America and get a degree from a nice university and settling there. but my dreams didn't come true. after passing high school here in nepal, i applied for the visa of US. for the developing country like nepal, the citizens need to give an interview at the US embassy...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category I'm In A Sexless Marriage (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 17 2017 at 06:32 by Poppy Seed RESPONDENTS: singlemom / Kayne / BLCKBUTRFLY / susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2017 at 02:24

First of all, I love my husband very much and I can't imagine my life without him. We've been together for 4 years before we got married 9 months a go. We had premarital sex with each other in the first 2 months of our new relationship. We were both in our mid 20's and both were virgin at the time. Our first time wasn't that great since we were both freaked out by the blood and I was panicking from the pain but that first time really bonded us together. The sex that followed afterwards were pretty standard, he was quite active to initiated sex although from the first time we were having se...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Soap Opera Relationship (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 20 2017 at 22:59 by Peyton Place RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2017 at 02:14

I am in a real soap opera relationship. I am dating a woman in a small town... in this town also lives her ex husband, divorced for about 10 years. Also he current husband who she is separated from off and on for the past several years. The current husband has been abusive to her mentally. Kicked her out several times., abandoned her during travels in other cities and told her several times he does not love her and does not want to be Married. Each time they separate for a time and until recently always got back together after a break of anywhere from a few days to 6 months. She has an ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Communication Trouble (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 21 2017 at 17:43 by MsVickie RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: May 21 2017 at 23:29

Hi everybody! Thanks for taking the time to read my post! We have been in a committed relationship for a year and a half and it seems that we have always had communication problems. We were raised totally different and just can't see eye to eye and I just can't make him see my point of view. I'm fed up and about to walk away. I don't know what to do bcuz I'm tired of fighting and arguing. Let me be up front and say that I am BiPolar and also have Social Anxiety Disorder. A lot of our fights or arguments stem from my illness bcuz of me being manic at times or as he would say being ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category She Dumped Me, And She Updates Her Relationship Status With Another Guy The Same (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 21 2017 at 21:50 by sollyv RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: May 21 2017 at 23:06

So, when my ex broke up with me, she vaguely just said "things have not been the same anymore, and I have been going through a lot recently". She deleted me on facebook, and wouldn't really communicate with me at all. 2 weeks later, I'm on her facebook profile and I look at some of the guys liking her photos. I look at his profile, and see his relationship status. He is in a relationship with my ex, since the same exact day she broke it off with me, according to his facebook status. Now, I kept that to myself for a while. Couple of months go by, they break up. We start talking again. Af...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship And Emotional Problems (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 18 2017 at 00:27 by AnonymousHorse RESPONDENTS: Elle LAST POST: May 18 2017 at 22:30

Hello, I feel ashamed to ask people for help especially the internet and I’m sorry for whoever reads, but I feel like I don’t know where to go anymore for this. For those of you who actually took the time to read this whole thing, I deeply appreciate it. Where do I begin, I’m a junior in high school at the peak of hormonal issues, and I have many problems. I’m not depressed and I don’t have thoughts of suicide but I do have a lot of personal issues that lately have been getting very annoying to say the least. I guess I’m having a lot of emotional problems that I can’t seem to ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Have I Cheated? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 7 2017 at 09:21 by Shamz RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Kayne / spunsugar LAST POST: May 18 2017 at 17:15

I have been dating a woman for 6 weeks. During week 3 she asked me if I was currently seeing someone, I said no. The relationship has been progressing and feels more solidified. In week 5 I slept with a girl while I was on vacation. It was not premeditated. I told her I was dating someone and that I couldn't do anything. After she kissed me I stopped thinking about the implications of what I was doing and had sex. I feel really awful about this. The only way I see to make myself feel better is to think that I did not have an exclusivity talk with the girl I am dating. We have since had...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Sexless Marriage Due To Mental And More (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 17 2017 at 22:15 by Kayne RESPONDENTS: Buterfli LAST POST: May 18 2017 at 00:24

We've been together 15yrs, married for 11yrs. It has been nothing short of a nightmare. It was only until a few years ago, through one of our many violent arguments (nothing is ever physical, although words can hurt), that I found out why she was even interested with me: I could provide her with a stable home - but that is for a different topic. Yes I have a gold digger. Due to mental issues (bi-polar and schizophrenia and a few other including religious-scrupulosity[RS] - bad), our intimacy has fade to nothing. her RS has played a major role these days (she did not have this when we firs...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Married, Distressed, And Quickly Breaking (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 16 2017 at 14:54 by Kittyk2700 RESPONDENTS: LongSummersAndEves LAST POST: May 17 2017 at 13:04

My husband and I married less than a year ago. He was my best friend and everything I could ever ask for in a man. I'd known him 7 years prior and felt I knew him well. There's a significantly large age gap between us and because of the gap and because he was divorced prior, our relationship didn't sit well with others. One man in particular attempted to talk me out of marrying him and told me that he'd never be satisfied with me. I didn't believe it and I married him anyway. A couple weeks after we married I began to realize he was a more serious and gruff man than I'd ever realized. I felt ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Boyfriend Trouble (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 16 2017 at 21:16 by Xxxxxx12345 RESPONDENTS: LongSummersAndEves / Poppy Seed LAST POST: May 17 2017 at 07:15

Recently I've discovered that some members of my boyfriends family do not like me.. for no reason what so ever I'm a nice, genuine, kind girl but I 've heard them pick on me behind my back then act nice to my face, my boyfriends told me stuff they've said about me to him, now I can't stand seeing my boyfriend around them knowing what they said about me and him, I'm so angry but it's almost as if im jelous were constantly arguing over pathetic things but the real reason is his family:( what do I do? ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category My Sisters Relationship (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 17 2017 at 05:36 by LongSummersAndEves RESPONDENTS: Poppy Seed LAST POST: May 17 2017 at 06:55

My sister and I are very close, have been best friends for years. She's younger than me and living out her last teen years right now. I've always been her support system. She's made terrible choices in guys, as we all have. Since her last good relationship she's fallen on the clingy and really annoying guys. I don't know if it's because of her self issues. Either way, I really dislike the new guy. He's an ex of hers, red flag number one. He's now living with her. I don't approve because he's basically a mooch. Now, I'm not objecting or pushing my thoughts in, in any way. She and I have alwa...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Stay In Relationship? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 16 2017 at 05:59 by Shayshay RESPONDENTS: LongSummersAndEves LAST POST: May 17 2017 at 06:03

Hi, im new here and looking for some advice. I'm in a committed relationship with my fiance and we have a son together who will be turning one in a few days. However though this should be a happy time, I'm feeling unhappy in the relationship. For months, since last year I've felt so unhappy and whenever I would bring up what's happening, my feelings were deemed 'causing issues'. He felt like everything was great but it wasn't. It's been going so long that I feel like I drifted so far and has lost connection due to him not wanting to talk with me and not hearing me out. It caused me to deel...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Oblivious To This Jerk?? (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 16 2017 at 17:58 by hippieluv RESPONDENTS: LongSummersAndEves LAST POST: May 17 2017 at 05:50

Basically this guy I'm seeing has been acting weird lately. He's been hanging out with some really douchey people, which I made it clear I don't want to be around them. Seems like he's been intentionally trying to test me and make me annoyed lately and I don't understand why- I'm super nice and respectful to him. Last week after we had sex, I had to ask why he never touches me- I asked if he thought I was repulsive or gross or something because he literally never makes me feel good about myself or touches me or cuddles, etc. I guess I get it if he's not really into all that but then he told me...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Depressing Talk (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 15 2017 at 19:22 by FishingNet36 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: May 16 2017 at 21:00

Evening all. How do I inform people in a group that I go to to not keep talking about politics,religion,money and suicide without offending them please? It's quite frequent and it gets me down. I go to the group to get away from that. Also,peoples money worries are their own business. I get sick of listening to it. We all sit round a table. I don't want to have to move and sit on my own....

Legal advice forum category advice forum category Is It Adultery If We Are In The Middle Of Our Divorce? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 12 2017 at 17:21 by Kev-N RESPONDENTS: manalone / Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: May 16 2017 at 17:42

My spouse filed for divorce in November in Texas. Our divorce will probably go on for another 6 months. I found out my spouse is already relations with another guy since January (ex: dinner, trips to the coast, staying at his house, etc..) Under Texas law, does this constitute adultery? Do I have a case or an angle to purse a counter law suite of infidelity? Thoughts? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused And Indecisive (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 15 2017 at 01:04 by Mel RESPONDENTS: scager / susiedqq LAST POST: May 15 2017 at 23:53

Hi, I am a ninth grade schoolgirl and I have a problem. It all started when I met this girl (she's in the eighth grade, but we're the same age) two-ish years ago and we are really close. I started to develop a romantic interest in her and asked her one day whether she had a crush on anyone and she said that she liked a guy from her year group and I immediately was confused and upset. I told people about it and they told me to get over it, after all, my feelings for her were still developing. I got over it after a few weeks. Just recently, I told her friends about the situation and what I s...

Housing advice forum category advice forum category Low Income Housing Advice. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 14 2017 at 21:12 by ICantWin RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 15 2017 at 23:49

Hey guys (Mainly The Uk) as this will apply. So me and my partner have put forward an application after a viewing for a low income housing property. The requirements states that household income needs to be between £15,000-£30,000 per annum. Our salaries together will come to around £34,000. But that's before Tax and NI. As well as deductions. Will this be a problem? Thank-you! ...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Continuing On With A Previous Challenge Regarding Fb Lurking (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 14 2017 at 23:30 by broost RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 15 2017 at 15:54

To catch everyone up, I've been lurking on somebody's Facebook page, this is an old flame from my past. I've lost interest in him, as I was excited when I found the page a few months ago but that interest has waned. I don't really check it anymore. I did stop by last night because I clicked on the wrong link. I noticed something, the man is white as a ghost and his neck is inflamed. He put up a picture of himself from last year and the difference is astounding. He's probably sick and doesn't know it, my guess a thyroid problem. He's gained weight too. Should I be sending some sort of anonymous...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Parents Split Up (Posts: 171)
CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate / Fugnuk LAST POST: May 15 2017 at 02:14

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Fear Of Losing Reputation , Will Kill Me Eventually (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 14 2017 at 18:14 by Aidin RESPONDENTS: solly / susiedqq LAST POST: May 15 2017 at 01:13

I'm 24 years old , male , work as a model for 4 years , i have lived a good life and made good decisions for myself and the others.family , friends . I met a good girl recently and we are dating just fine. About 25 days ago , I got really drunk , I don't drink often , fifth times a year at max.and I sent two photos of myself naked , in bad positions , to two strangers (man) in a social media like Instagram , after I got sober and woke up , I realised what mess I had done...one of the two men sent a text like when can I meet and so .I panicked and got really upset , I'm not gay , I don't know...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Do I Tell A Girl I've Never Met That Her Boyfriend Has Been Cheating On Her? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 10 2017 at 18:10 by ElizaBall95 RESPONDENTS: manalone / kally LAST POST: May 15 2017 at 01:01

I've known this guy for a few years and we've always got along well but I always knew that he had some kind of feelings for me (as he had told me several times). Last summer he told me that him and his girlfriend had split up. We started talking more and around October time we started seeing each other. I started to get stronger feelings for him, we got along very well and he was on of the very few people I felt truly comfortable with. One day he had told me he was going to be sitting down with his ex to talk things over which made me a little uncomfortable at first but they had been toget...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Road Safety Whilst On My Scooter (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 12 2017 at 07:43 by FishingNet36 RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq / Carolla LAST POST: May 15 2017 at 00:51

Morning. Whilst being out on my scooter,I was going down a country lane and a car started reversing out of their drive. They didn't see me until the last minute,nearly mowed me down. I froze and forgot where my horn was. They apologized and went on their way. It shook me up a bit. I also have cars overtake me whilst others are coming in the opposite direction so I ease off just incase they need to get back in. If i see a few cars behind me I try to pull in to a layby if I can,if a car isn't tailgating me. I am frightened that when they are too close,if I signal,even...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Just Some Dating Help Please. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 13 2017 at 03:24 by SadPanda RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: May 14 2017 at 00:41

So I went to the movies with a guy I use to go to school with. He was nice and talkative. Im always a shy person. So i didnt talk quite as much. We laughed. Had fun. He hugged me at the end of the night and sent me a text saying he had fun shortly after. I don't know if that means he maybe likes me or as a friend. I don't get out much. I've had issues with dating people. So I was wondering should I text him and talk to him or wait and see if he talks to me first? He's really nice and even of it didn't end up in dating he would be a great friend....

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category I Gave My Son Up For Adoption In My Youth: Considering Contacting, Feel Shame. (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 10 2017 at 08:07 by whoami RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: May 13 2017 at 19:23

When I was approximately the age my son is now, 24, I got a real nice Morman girl pregnant. I did not want a kid, and refused to have anything to do with the pregnancy. As the pregnancy progressed she developed a relationship with her co-worker who I ran into at a bar one night towards the end of the pregnancy. We had words and out of no where I 'told him if he was not going to be there for the kid then I would' and I said that in front of a table of his peers. (Those are the best words I think I have ever said) Honestly I'm not sure I meant it, but in the end I think I would have done the ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Mother's Day Issues (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 12 2017 at 03:32 by Mom476 RESPONDENTS: longsummersandeves LAST POST: May 12 2017 at 06:23

I know mothers day can bring up complicated feelings for people. I feel I shouldn't have ill feelings because I am the mother of a very sweet toddler. However I am an only child and mother has one sister (my aunt) who does not have any children. It somehow seems they make the Mother's Day holiday about them and I feel like the odd one out. I feel like they are obsessed with each other. Mother's Day with them just feels uncomfortable in a way that the other holidays don't. How should I handle this situation?...

Other advice forum category advice forum category I Have No Clue What To Do (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 10 2017 at 05:44 by LongSummersAndEves RESPONDENTS: FishingNet36 LAST POST: May 12 2017 at 06:16

Depressed, most days. Mom of two young ones. I find waking early helps. I do that most days. I married a good man. He and I are distant lately, which oddly enough, I think we are both ok with. Problem is, I'm not ok with myself. I'm trying to be motivated to go out. Lose weight. Enjoy myself while we are distant. Possibly coming back from the distance, improved. I just feel so awkward even now making contact sometimes. He works long hours and I stay at home. When we finally have time to ourselves, thats just what we want, time to ourselves. Not together. If I try to make it a time for us, it's...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Two Possibilities (Posts: 5)
CREATED: May 8 2017 at 07:48 by Altreal RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: May 12 2017 at 05:19

Hey Peoplesproblems. It's been a while since I needed feedback on anything, but I find myself suddenly in a position tonight where I could definitely use some advice. So I (28 year old male) have been in the online dating game off and on for almost 2 years now. All this year so far I have been single, and hadn't been having much luck on the website. But then I managed to find a couple of people who seem like they could be what I'm looking for in a partner, and have been keeping in contact with them. For about a month I've been talking to the first girl, we'll call her 'A'. A: She l...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category On The Verge Of Giving It All Up (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Apr 19 2017 at 14:02 by rose1129 RESPONDENTS: DanielleShauvaun / LovingLife2017 / MarrigeAintEasy LAST POST: May 12 2017 at 02:47

So I am 28 year old married working woman. Until now I thought I had a perfect life but when you dig deep you see the issues. Here's what all has happened in past one year of my life and I have hit rock bottom because of all this. I had a successful job and being in that position i helped my best friend and referred her. She came to my company and started working with me. Then the good old story of the frog that i have heard since my childhood happened with me. She tricked my manager, took away my work everything went down the drain from there. She made me appear like a villain in my organisat...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Ruined (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 10 2017 at 02:45 by Graz30 RESPONDENTS: whoami / Nimbles LAST POST: May 12 2017 at 00:52

My new girlfriend, who I have known most of my life, found out she was pregnant by her ex. She was fairly far along but decided on a termination. I had told her I would stand by her whatever she decided to do! She had initially asked me for my support but then started pushing me away saying it was her problem and she didn't want me involved. I haven't heard from her much in the last couple of weeks and I have text her quite a bit to say I'm here if she needs me and not to push me away. Finally heard from her to say that she was in hospital after miscarrying! I asked if I could come see her an...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Ocd,depression And Anxiety. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 10 2017 at 14:28 by FishingNet36 RESPONDENTS: Prinny LAST POST: May 11 2017 at 09:14

Afternoon. Does anybody else here have OCD,depression and anxiety? I have a lot of negative thoughts and can't seem to switch them off. I.e,If someone has a go at me,the fact I was bullied at school,the fact that I am thick,the fact that I lost a friend because I had a go at them for putting on me,that I find it hard to say no. All these things,the thoughts I have,I get anxious and stressed by it. My relationship with food is weird,coping to a certain extent and then I get anxious over it when something happens or I get an ailment. I have to eat though.I don't want to be teased for being skinn...

Violence & Crime advice forum category advice forum category Injustice Inmarriages (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 10 2017 at 23:31 by BRITNY RESPONDENTS: Prinny LAST POST: May 10 2017 at 23:44

My husband has a 1/2inch penis which is completely dis-functional, rarely erects after taking Viagra, he and my in-laws are extremely greedy and abusive and threaten me to kill if disclosed any details about his physical problem or dowry. I am aware about dowry laws. I know that I can divorce and get rid. But this is not enough for me. He has earn social validity for himself by marry me, and by walking out of this marriage I will loose my social status forever. Is THERE ANY LAW THAT supports that such a man should not marry a normal women and destroys her life??...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Someone Asking For Favours. (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 5 2017 at 16:37 by FishingNet36 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 10 2017 at 09:08

A mate at the time asked for favours quite frequently. I shouted at them and swore. I apologised but to no avail. Tit for tat was texted. They called the cops,so that was that. I feel like a monster. That was nearly 2 years ago. Since being on an assertive course i sit down and discuss things instead of flipping my lid. How do i get past this hate that i feel inside of me please?...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship End? (Posts: 49)
CREATED: Jan 3 2017 at 15:18 by Woozy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / honestruth / slowjoe83 / alsosusan2 / harry888 LAST POST: May 10 2017 at 00:48

Well, im 28 and my girlfriend is 22. We have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and started to live together after 2 months meeting. Everything was great till 2 weeks ago, when we had a horrible fight. I know i haven't been a perfect guy but we always have had a jelousy problem. She doesn't trust me most likely at all. But for her, i even stoped talking to other females long time ago, cus i love her so much and that's not a problem for me. But every time someone contacted me, there was a problem, so i think i was getting distant cus lack of trust. That was wrong of me. Looking back i wa...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Something To Worry About Or Cold Feet? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 5 2017 at 11:39 by Littlemomma17 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: May 9 2017 at 23:28

OK, so I'm in a weird place. I'm needing advice because I'm having some issues in my relationship but I'm not sure if I should listen to my family members advice because they don't like the dude but then again I see what they're talking about. OK so I'm going to be getting married to this guy I've been with for about 5 years now. I've known him literally all my life, we started dating in the 7th grade and now are at our junior year of high school, have a baby together and are about to marry. It's what I have always wanted. Except right now we have our own place with his mom little brot...

Work advice forum category advice forum category Work Problem With Senior (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 4 2017 at 18:27 by onesixn RESPONDENTS: manalone / Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: May 8 2017 at 13:41

Hey guys. Thanks for your advice. I'm a young male doctor on a training scheme. As part of my training I have to rotate through various specialties to learn my trade. On a recent rotation I became good friends with two male docs, both of whom I eventually felt comfortable with sharing my sexuality as a gay guy with after they earned my trust. Both are married, one with four young kids, but on a night out around Xmas the guy with kids hit on me and announced that he had fallen in love with me over the preceding months. He asked if we could kiss, I shut him down and said nothing would ever happe...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Does This Make Any Sense? (Posts: 4)
CREATED: May 6 2017 at 23:00 by Glitter ghost RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Candle123 LAST POST: May 7 2017 at 21:20

So, after trying to start over, again, my husband has said that he is so tired of trying that he would rather be alone then have to jump through hoops in this relationship. Is showing genuine love for someone supposed to sound so painful and exhausting. After asking what these hoops are, the discussion went on to how needy I am and I want to much attention. Let me bring to the table that I am by far not spoiled, I got $19.99 pajamas for Christmas and nothing for Valentine's Day. I love holidays and make sure there are decorations around the house and there is a gift for him. He doesn't show at...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I'm Stuck At This Guilty Yet Tortured Feeling (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 7 2017 at 05:16 by edeer21 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 7 2017 at 13:11

Couple of years ago, i was having a girlfriend. This sweet angel is one of my best childhood friend. When i was around 9-10 years old, me and my parents moved to a new house quite far from the previous one. Thus made me got separated from her and we didn't try to contact each other over a years. Then finally when i was 15 years old, somehow i got the chance to meet her again. I was so happy and we continue our friendship once more. Days after days, we got more close to each other. Finally i brave myself to confess my feeling to her, surprisingly she accepted me as her boyfriend. To be able ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Two Years Chats, Two Dates, No Move Yet (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 7 2017 at 10:44 by Candle123 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 7 2017 at 13:05

Him and I have been chatting for almost 2 1/2 years now. I'm into him. Two years ago we met accidentally at a bar, had good time, drank a couple of bears. Was it the bear talking, I don't know, but I took him by the hand, then he walked me p the taxi, then we kissed. On the next morning-nothing but chatting. A week later I asked him if he wanted to talk about what happened. He said it'd be interested to pretend nothing happened. He kept on the chats going , I have ups and downs. So far-2 years passed by like that. He initiated two dates in the meantime, keeps on chatting, talking about his fam...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Not Sure What My Relationship Status Is (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 7 2017 at 07:09 by Link00156 RESPONDENTS: Shamz LAST POST: May 7 2017 at 09:27

So I'm 24(m) and I've been working with this 20(f) for almost a year now. She has done nothing but sexually harass me for months and I've rejected her advances until recently. We have talked everyday and have occasionally hungout outside work for a few months now. We'll watch tv together and she'll have no problem laying around on top of me or grabbing at my dick through my pants when I'm hard and make a joke. The other night we even laid in my bed together and she even pulled my hand into her pants to prove she wasn't wearing panties, she even reached into my pants wanting to get me hard. Yet...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Need Help. I Cant Deal With My Mother Anymore! (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 4 2017 at 13:30 by ICantWin RESPONDENTS: FishingNet36 / susiedqq LAST POST: May 6 2017 at 21:53

So, I'm one of 7 kids. The 2ND eldest. My older sibling has moved out and has her own kids. My role in the family is basically the one who has to listen, the one who can't have a bad day because someone else there has it worse. Cut a long story short: I moved in with my boyfriend about a year ago and it didn't work with me living there so I reluctantly moved back with my mother and 4 younger siblings. (Other brother lives with our dad) At first my mum was all open arms and "glad to have me back". I then started a new job. I came in from a 15 hour day once and she completely went crazy on m...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Getting Back A Best Friend After Total Chaos. (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Apr 10 2017 at 18:41 by Geno1991 RESPONDENTS: Dominic Wild / manalone / FishingNet36 LAST POST: May 5 2017 at 17:26

Hey, to all. I need some truly "thinking out of the box" assistance on this situation - I have approached a friendship issue via a completely unacceptable manner, resulting in me losing my best friend entirely. The regret of this happening is the biggest regret of my life, and I am trying to get any suggestion as to how I can act to have my former friend back. The reason I say this takes truly out of the box thinking is because all the normal actions people would advise for such a situation, I have already done with no success. -----------THE SCENARIO----------- I have met a girl...

Money advice forum category advice forum category My Friend Wants To Pay Expenses (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 5 2017 at 00:33 by Marjorie RESPONDENTS: manalone / Altreal LAST POST: May 5 2017 at 06:32

I am married, age 70, retired. My friend is a widow, but has more disposable income than we do. She has few friends, was accustomed to her husband taking care of her, and timid about doing things or traveling on her own. She is grateful for my friendship and having a companion to shop with, etc. Sometimes my husband and I have included her when we go to dinner, etc. The problem is that, because she wants to do with me or us and knows we have budget limitations, she offers to pay for tickets or grabs the check. Fine with me, occasionally, but it's gotten to the point I have to insist....and the...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Thinking Proccess Had Changed A Lot (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 4 2017 at 08:24 by lunatic22 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: May 4 2017 at 17:20

IN PAST I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT THE LEARNING PROCESS CONTINUES ALL OVER OUR LIFE BUT THE OTHER THOUGHT WHICH PEAKS IN THAT AS WE LEARN WHOLE OUR LIFE WHEN SHOULD WE CAN RECOGNIZE OUR SELF CONFIDENT ENOUGH ABOUT THAT THINGS WE DO , BUT THE CONFIDENT ATTITUDE ALSO BLOCKS THE LEARNING PROCESS PERHAPS WHAT IS THE SOLUTION TO DEAL TO THIS PROBLEM...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Sexual With Son (Posts: 2)
CREATED: May 1 2017 at 18:22 by AnonMom RESPONDENTS: Cindy / shrek's_wife LAST POST: May 4 2017 at 02:26

I do not like the term incest, so I try not to use it, even if it is. I am an intelligent, professional woman looking for advice. Preferably from another mom who may understand. I am at my whits end. This problem started quite some time ago but has escalated in the past year and more so recently. I am afraid we are very close to going over the line and having a sexual relationship. We have been intimate to a degree but we have not had intercourse at this point. I am at my office and don't have a lot of time right now, if there are any women out there that understand and can offer advice, plea...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Are We? (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Apr 30 2017 at 13:13 by hippieluv RESPONDENTS: anon_woman73 / shrek's_wife LAST POST: May 4 2017 at 01:45

Hi. I need some advice. I've known this guy for a little over 2 years now. We've always hung out, have so much fun together. Even just doing simple things. We could sit with a couple beers and talk for hours; he's told me everything about himself. I've always been really into him but never said anything. We have amazing sex, but he's never really kissed me; never said I love you. Recently he's been calling and texting WAY more. Basically almost every day. He made dinner last time I came over. He's even started to cuddle. Even heard the occasional "babe" thrown in there... The other day I came...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Bottom Of The Barrel (Posts: 3)
CREATED: May 3 2017 at 10:55 by Ready to give up RESPONDENTS: London / manalone LAST POST: May 4 2017 at 00:43

My husband doesn't want me anymore.. It started out lil by lil less intimacy, then less and less then he started putting me down now and then. It's now an everyday thing. Between time he from time to time shows me affection but that's where it stops. I've tried being more living, more aggressive more open minded and adventurous but at the end of it all I end up left out.. He would rather masturbate then have sex with me..I even tried to bring another r women in the bedroom with us he loved it but he loved her and I was left to the side. I've asked him whate problem is and he said he doesn't kn...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Problems (Posts: 1)
CREATED: May 1 2017 at 17:51 by Stephon RESPONDENTS: Nimbles LAST POST: May 2 2017 at 10:48

Im currently married and we are having some troubled times right now. My wife was recently divorced. It seems like we are fighting against each other and not really giving each other a fair chance in our marriage. This is our second marriage she was divorced and im a widower. What advice is there to help us get over this hump right now. ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Friends For Long Or Not? I Need To Hear Feedbacks (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 12:33 by TunaMayo RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: May 1 2017 at 17:59

Hey, as you can see from the title, this is merely about friendships. During the year 2015, when I just finished High School, I went straight to college since I got accepted right away. I was already saying goodbye's to my High School classmates as we won't be seeing each other for a very long time except for my best friend. She and I went to college together but, she wasn't accepted yet as her parents wanted her to work for a while for half a year. So I was the only one who went to college first. At first I was super nervous because I didn't know anyone at all, no one from High School...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Trouble In Paradise (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Apr 29 2017 at 18:35 by shadesofblue RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Just be LAST POST: May 1 2017 at 12:49

We've been married 20 years. We have had two separations that were less than a year each. We did marriage counseling. We are currently together, but some of the same issues remain. My biggest issue is that I feel like my needs, wants, and feelings don't matter. Every time I try to express my feelings about something, my spouse brings up old mistakes I made. Things I did years ago that made her feel the same way I'm feeling now. She never takes any accountability for what she's done wrong. I try to express my feelings in a non-accusatory manner, but it doesn't matter. She still gets defensive a...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Falling Out Of Love 1 Year Relationship 7 Years Friendship (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Apr 22 2017 at 10:02 by Lostpoet RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Altreal LAST POST: Apr 30 2017 at 22:05

I have known this gal for 7 years now. We met via online site and met face to face. My gut said to me don't go for it. Only to find out later when she told me she had someone in her life she went out with me cause she looking for someone new. She used to be a heavy partying person. The lifestyle i never liked. So i decided best we just be friends. Through the 6 years of friendship she had multiple partners and instances where her life was at risk (driving under the influence, unprotected sex with a partner she knows was cheating). Lots if risk taking behaviour. The in 2016 i noticed a great...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Family Member Going To Prison- Confused About My Emotions (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Apr 28 2017 at 18:56 by Titanium RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Apr 30 2017 at 13:37

My brother is about to go prison, probably for several years and I am confused about how I am reacting to the news. Although we(the family) found out about it around 10 months ago it's been the elephant in the room and no discussion has taken place about it. The trial was this week- he didn't tell us- and was on the front of the local paper yesterday. I feel like I have spent the day wandering around with a sign saying 'criminal's sister' As far as I am aware there's no doubt that he did what he's accused of so I'm not here protesting his innocence I just need someone to talk to about my re...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I'd Like Some Advice...any Help Or Questions Is Appreciated (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 02:35 by RelativeNinja RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 29 2017 at 21:39

Its been two days since I last contacted her. She didn't reply so I haven't since. I added nine more cuts last night. That's brings the total up to 38. It's now 1 o clock in the morning and I'm feeling pretty good. Obviously I still feel like pure shit but compared to the last few weeks it's an improvement. I'm not gonna cut tonight. Just finished up with farming simulator. Stops me thinking cause I have to concentrate so much. And it makes me tired so when I turn everything off I don't have time to think about her I just go asleep. The cuts aren't helping all that much either. All my blades a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Would This Be Considered Cheating? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Apr 27 2017 at 23:43 by gargoyle RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 29 2017 at 21:32

My wife sometimes goes on business trips to conferences. She told me how on 2 different trips she's gone out for drinks, her and a man, and talked until the bar closed. About work, life, travel, etc. The first trip, she was with her boss, and did this 3 different nights on the same trip. The second trip, she met a few people in the same conference and joined them for dinner. Men and Women. After dinner she asked all people at the table if anyone wanted to go for a walk. A man said sure, no one else went. She said they walked for a bit then went for drinks and again she closed the b...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Snooping On Husbands Phone Has Left Me An Emotional Wreck! (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 12:14 by Busybee RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / shadesofblue LAST POST: Apr 29 2017 at 18:29

So, I've been happily married for nearly 4 years. 2 beautiful children. Youngest is only 12 weeks old and the reason I started snooping on my husbands phone. Although he's really attentive. Says all the right things, great sex life etc. The hormonal side of me made me look through his whatsapp msgs and I've found some awfully rude video clips that have been sent back & to, between him & a work colleague. The colleague is a man may I add and the clips are of women masturbating. They are quite jokey clips, only a couple of minutes long and have normal music over the top (probably to hide wha...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Kind Of Person Am I? (Posts: 3)
CREATED: Apr 26 2017 at 13:57 by Wall_Hermit RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 28 2017 at 13:33

New member here just looking for a place to verbalize what's been on my mind for a few years now. Hopefully I won't ramble for too long. I was in an emotional abusive relationship before and I too did and said hurtful things to that partner. I finally had the strength to break up with them (him) but I had started having feelings for their best friend but it was just that at the time. I actually knew the best friend longer than my ex. Anyway, mutual friends started to get a vibe from us where we would be extra chummy and confronted us about telling my ex/his best friend but we did...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Depression: How To Make Him Realise He Needs Help? (Posts: 5)
CREATED: Apr 19 2017 at 13:43 by KatKat RESPONDENTS: LovingLife2017 / Soulmate / Sweetie / Guy220 LAST POST: Apr 27 2017 at 18:12

Hi all, someone very dear to me is suffering but he doesn't realise he needs help and he is pushing away everyone around him. It all starts with a very very bad childhood and abuse by stepfather, then in his late 20ies he failed a couple of jobs and ventures he started - failures came one after the other in the next few years and apparently depression and loneliness got deeper, but he never talks to anyone and all the people around him must have overlooked it, it has been going on for years and getting worse and worse. He started drinking, smoking too much and anything he finds, becoming aggre...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Think My Girlfriends Cheating (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Apr 27 2017 at 13:10 by Matt986 RESPONDENTS: anon_woman73 LAST POST: Apr 27 2017 at 13:42

So a couple of months ago my girlfriend and I were having a few problems (money issues mostly) which we had talked about and we're slowly resolving. Even though we were sorting things out I could tell something wasn't quite right and I found out she was messaging a guy on Facebook. I have no problem what so ever with her talking to other people so I didn't think anything of it and didn't confront her about it. As time went on she was messaging him more and more to the point where it felt like she completely forgot about me and would spend hours just sat talking to him. I mentioned several time...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Advice Needed Please (Posts: 7)
CREATED: Apr 20 2017 at 17:52 by anon_woman73 RESPONDENTS: DanielleShauvaun / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 27 2017 at 13:37

Hello, I just need a little advice before I trundle off to my doctor for the umpteenth time in the last 4 months, I may aswell live there lately. I apologise if some details are a bit gruesome. My husband walked out on me in November, I blamed myself as he didn't give reasons, just said he wasn't happy. The sex wasn't that great or indeed that much, but he never made me feel wanted etc. I know it goes both ways but little did I know I was heading towards kidney problems. Anyway, long story short, the grass is greener apparently because he is now with a 25 year old (he's 40). The age thi...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Girlfriend [21 F] Wanted Us To Swing And I [21 M] Broke Up With Her. (Posts: 1)
CREATED: Apr 27 2017 at 04:23 by jungleboy247 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 27 2017 at 13:28

We used to study at the same college and one day she sat next to me in the bus, I got her number and we started to see each other every day, I was deeply in love with her and we used to talk about getting married, even though we only spent two months and a half together. At first she seemed to be a decent girl, but after a while she told me she had sex with couples twice before dating me and that she wanted us to have a threesome with a single girl, I really liked the idea and we started to look for someone interested. The following week she told me that we would only have the girl if I ...

Housing advice forum category advice forum category Should I Move Out Without My Parents Permission Or Just Stick It Through? (Posts: 6)
CREATED: Apr 21 2017 at 01:15 by sellya RESPONDENTS: Minipizza / progressive.house / LovingLife2017 / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 25 2017 at 19:29

Hey so I'm really desperate and looking for answers. I'm 21 about to be 22 and I'm still in college finishing my last year of pre-reqs before I head off to my program which I have yet to be accepted into or applied for yet. I lived away from home for 3 years and in that time period experienced really intense depression due to realizing I wasn't cut out for my dream major in medicine so I went crazy and partied all the time and sadly I was sexually abused which led to a huge spiral and my first attempt at suicide. A year later I was arrested and another year later I moved off campus and to an...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Confused About My Mental Health (Posts: 2)
CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 18:54 by nana987 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Online Management Classes LAST POST: Apr 25 2017 at 13:14

Hello, my issue is that I'm confused about my mental health, I experience anxiety attacks from now and then and I'm living this weird phenomenon where I have a panic attack when I remember random unpleasant memories from several years ago. Before I used to bite myself in response, pick my cheek or abuse myself verbally unconsciously, but lately my reaction has been limited to closing my eyes forcefully three times in a raw and I get to caln down again. I saw a psychiatrist and she diagnosed me with OCD but I felt like she misdiagnosed me. And then I went to see a psychologist but I felt like ...

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