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Health advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused about my mental health
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 18:54 by nana987 RESPONDENTS: Online Management Cl LAST POST: Apr 25 2017 at 13:14

Hello, my issue is that I'm confused about my mental health, I experience anxiety attacks from now and then and I'm living this weird phenomenon where I have a panic attack when I remember random unpleasant memories from several years ago. Before I used to bite myself in response, pick my cheek or abuse myself verbally unconsciously, but lately my reaction has been limited to closing my...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryFriends for long or not? I need to hear feedback
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 12:33 by TunaMayo RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: May 1 2017 at 17:59

Hey, as you can see from the title, this is merely about friendships. During the year 2015, when I just finished High School, I went straight to college since I got accepted right away. I was already saying goodbye's to my High School classmates as we won't be seeing each other for a very long time except for my best friend. She and I went to college together but, she wasn't acc...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySnooping on husbands phone has left me an emotional wreck!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 12:14 by Busybee RESPONDENTS: shadesofblue LAST POST: Apr 29 2017 at 18:29

So, I've been happily married for nearly 4 years. 2 beautiful children. Youngest is only 12 weeks old and the reason I started snooping on my husbands phone. Although he's really attentive. Says all the right things, great sex life etc. The hormonal side of me made me look through his whatsapp msgs and I've found some awfully rude video clips that have been sent back & to, bet...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI'd like some advice... any help or questions is appreciated
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 24 2017 at 02:35 by RelativeNinja RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Apr 29 2017 at 21:39

Its been two days since I last contacted her. She didn't reply so I haven't since. I added nine more cuts last night. That's brings the total up to 38. It's now 1 o clock in the morning and I'm feeling pretty good. Obviously I still feel like pure shit but compared to the last few weeks it's an improvement. I'm not gonna cut tonight. Just finished up with farming...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage ending, where to go?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 23 2017 at 21:16 by Chedge05 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Altreal LAST POST: Apr 24 2017 at 05:24

Long story short, my marriage is over. We were married for 6 months, and she ended up telling me on Easter Sunday that it was over. We agreed to let the divorce go through, give her space and we could work on a friendship, get some things straightened out and go from there. I have been texting her, to the point that she says he doesn't ever want to have a relationship with me again and friend...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy marriage over... and I refuse to accept it
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 23 2017 at 02:17 by anna.333 RESPONDENTS: Amaze0707 LAST POST: Apr 24 2017 at 05:26

Two years ago I gave birth. Before my birth I wasn't exactly the thinnest person but during pregnancy and after I gained some considerable weight of 15 kilos. I was aware of it but for a year after the birth I was upset with myself because I became completely disinterested in sex. My husband had no patience with me and my problem and after 3-4 months after the birth I forced myself to hav...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFalling out of love 1 year relationship 7 years friendship
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2017 at 10:02 by Lostpoet RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Apr 30 2017 at 22:05

I have known this gal for 7 years now. We met via online site and met face to face. My gut said to me don't go for it. Only to find out later when she told me she had someone in her life she went out with me cause she looking for someone new. She used to be a heavy partying person. The lifestyle i never liked. So i decided best we just be friends. Through the 6 years of friendship she had mul...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWife wants a baby but I'm not sure (same sex couple)
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2017 at 00:28 by happywifehappylife RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Apr 23 2017 at 14:34

I've been with my wife for 8 years and married for two. At the very start of our relationship I really wanted kids and she didn't want any. As time has gone on, I've realised that although I'd still love to adopt and foster children, I don't necessarily feel comfortable creating a child using donor sperm. This is down to a few reasons, such as: the world already being o...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed relationship advice, 3rd person problem, what should i do?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 21 2017 at 20:13 by Blue369 RESPONDENTS: RelativeNinja LAST POST: Apr 24 2017 at 13:38

Its been 6years that me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship.we are 21yr old.We were very happy together.We always understood and cared for each other. We had some small relationship problems from before,some of the matters became unbearable for me and he said he would fix it with time but i always felt that it cant be fixed. So our relation was struggling already but we still lov...

Housing advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I move out without my parents permission or just stick it through?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 21 2017 at 01:15 by sellya RESPONDENTS: Minipizza / progressive.house / LovingLife2017 LAST POST: Apr 25 2017 at 19:29

Hey so I'm really desperate and looking for answers. I'm 21 about to be 22 and I'm still in college finishing my last year of pre-reqs before I head off to my program which I have yet to be accepted into or applied for yet. I lived away from home for 3 years and in that time period experienced really intense depression due to realizing I wasn't cut out for my dream major in m...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryI got stuck in my own problem at 19
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 20 2017 at 23:27 by VanKhag RESPONDENTS: Christy LAST POST: Apr 21 2017 at 10:19

Hello everyone, Im sure that everybody at this age kinda feel the same too. At 19, after leaving high school, i got no closed friend at college. I see people making group of friends, and i dont even know how they could get so well with each other. I cant find someone I could share my story with. So I have to get used to the feeling of being alone. I tried to make my life more interesting but i ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice needed please
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2017 at 17:52 by anon_woman73 RESPONDENTS: DanielleShauvaun LAST POST: Apr 27 2017 at 13:37

Hello, I just need a little advice before I trundle off to my doctor for the umpteenth time in the last 4 months, I may aswell live there lately. I apologise if some details are a bit gruesome. My husband walked out on me in November, I blamed myself as he didn't give reasons, just said he wasn't happy. The sex wasn't that great or indeed that much, but he never made me feel ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDating someone younger
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2017 at 08:22 by RedZippy RESPONDENTS: anon_woman73 / DanielleShauvaun LAST POST: Apr 20 2017 at 22:19

Met a girl, we both get on with each other and today we will be going on a date. I am 30 years old and she is 19 years old. Is this a problem? Can it work? And what obstacles may come in the way. Thanks....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband is mad all the time
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2017 at 01:55 by Gingerale RESPONDENTS: puppyfeeet / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 20 2017 at 15:58

My husband has been very nasty to me and our our youngest daughter lately. Nothing we do is right he makes mean comments then says he is joking. He is fine with our older daughter. If i try to talk to him about it he gets angry and tells me that i am overreacting and he has done nothing. That i am the one who is wrong. Then he stops talking to me for a few days. When he decides that itbis ov...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship / marriage CREATED: Apr 19 2017 at 16:03 by DON IZU LAST POST: Apr 20 2017 at 08:46

2017 i met a lady in school, we dated for one year before people started telling me that she is married with a child. I asked her she denied it at initial time. After sometimes i asked her again which she accepted to b true, but she said they were having issues. Since then my love for her wax cold but i couldn’t quit the relationship. After school time, distance separated us. But we talked on ph...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryOn the verge of giving it all up
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2017 at 14:02 by rose1129 RESPONDENTS: DanielleShauvaun / LovingLife2017 / MarrigeAintEasy LAST POST: May 12 2017 at 02:47

So I am 28 year old married working woman. Until now I thought I had a perfect life but when you dig deep you see the issues. Here's what all has happened in past one year of my life and I have hit rock bottom because of all this. I had a successful job and being in that position i helped my best friend and referred her. She came to my company and started working with me. Then the good old st...

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryDepression: How to make him realise he needs help?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2017 at 13:43 by KatKat RESPONDENTS: LovingLife2017 / Soulmate / Sweetie / Guy220 LAST POST: Apr 27 2017 at 18:12

Hi all, someone very dear to me is suffering but he doesn't realise he needs help and he is pushing away everyone around him. It all starts with a very very bad childhood and abuse by stepfather, then in his late 20ies he failed a couple of jobs and ventures he started - failures came one after the other in the next few years and apparently depression and loneliness got deeper, but he never t...