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Relationships advice forum category advice forum category5 months into my marriage and I'm clueless to what my husband wants out of our marriage
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 25 2017 at 21:39 by Inlovewithelvis RESPONDENTS: Altreal / manalone LAST POST: Jun 27 2017 at 22:53

I realize that the first yr of marriage is difficult in learning to live with someone and what each of our expectations are. I thought that we had discussed our goals before marriage and that they were common. Instead of being his partner in life, I am someone to do his chores for him. I have stepchildren who I truely love and I am happy to help him raise and be a friend to them but he doesn'...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryCannot go on after DUI conviction
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 25 2017 at 13:54 by Social Pariah RESPONDENTS: 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 25 2017 at 20:21

I am so hurt, angry, ashamed, humiliated, guilt ridden, ostracized and hopeless. A victimless, intellectual crime as the heinous DUI in Canada is.....has destroyed me and my children permanently for generations to come. I cannot function as a human being anymore. There is sooo much to say on this subject but I don't know how to cope with this anymore. ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryIs she fake?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 23 2017 at 20:34 by aries 68 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Altreal LAST POST: Jun 25 2017 at 18:18

New to this forum, but need some advice. I started a new job in 2006 and a colleague started 4 months after me. We worked together on and off and was always very sociable to each other and got on well. In 2010 I realised that we seemed to have got a lot closer and worked together on a more regular basis. We would message each other all the time in / out of work, evenings and weekends. We foun...

Other advice forum category advice forum categorySchool showers are so awkward!
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 23 2017 at 03:02 by Canadian315 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jun 23 2017 at 07:12

at some point during my school year teachers started complaining about how students smelled bad after gym class. My gym class ( girls) was forced to shower after class. Since there's only 5 shower heads, we had to stand in a line, butt ass naked. Some girls didn't care if they were seen in the nude, but for me , there is nothing more embarassing than standing in a line butt ass naked in ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryThe wedding of people pleasing
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 22 2017 at 16:33 by Jriv RESPONDENTS: manalone / Mingliao LAST POST: Jun 27 2017 at 22:31

so here is a little backstory to my issue. I am currently 25 years old and since I was 17 years old my brother had been dating then got engaged and had a child with someone who grew to be my best friend. Over the course of the last year, they had broken up and both moved on. He is now engaged to be married just like myself. At first he was okay with our friendship but over time he grew to hate i...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryJob won't let me quit :(
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 22:54 by Illyria RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 22 2017 at 13:12

I'm sorry for posting here, but I suffer from social anxiety and I'm really wavering in my resolve here. I'm not really sure what elese to say other than, here is my situation. Please tell me what you think. Firstly, I've been in Spain for the past nine months working as an English teacher. In fact, a week Saturday I'm leaving to study my Masters degree in the UK for a...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel lost
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 19:08 by RingoParker RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jun 23 2017 at 09:07

Hello all, It took a while for me to search and find a decent forum, but finally I found this and I will try to explain my situation. I feel I am a failure. Simple as that, I feel like I am not capable of doing something right in my entire life. I will try to start with the begining. First of all, I am 30 years old male. I finished school in 2011 and finally got a job one year later. I...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryVacation feud
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 11:20 by Davenajean RESPONDENTS: Ashit Raja LAST POST: Jun 22 2017 at 03:51

My husband and I had planned a 9 day vacation at our little cabin since January. He decided to invite his parents to " visit" and take them out on a charter boat fishing. Problem is that he did this without talking to me about it. I was pissed. We argued. He said I was selfish hateful etc. I told him I would suck it up, never do that again and at least we would have half the vacatio...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryNo friends, too ugly and my life is going nowhere.......help!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 21 2017 at 01:36 by scott020298 RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Ashit Raja LAST POST: Jun 21 2017 at 14:00

Hi, first of all I would like to start with the good points, it shouldn't take long. I am currently writing this on a ship over in Uruguay, I am with the merchant navy as a deck cadet so I get to travel the world a fair bit. I am from the UK and am 19 years old so still pretty young. I would say I am very spoilt as my family give me a lot of expensive things and am earning a fair bit on this ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease help, wife cheating
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 20 2017 at 15:08 by Badly_Hurt RESPONDENTS: london / manalone / Ashit Raja LAST POST: Jun 21 2017 at 14:37

Hi, I am a 40 years old guy, happily married for 10 years and a kid. I love my family and I spend a lot of time with them trying to give a healthy and good environment for my son to grow. All was good, until about 6 months ago, my wife's android phone's screen broke. She bought a new phone and continue using her new phone. When I got the phone repaired recently and switched on, I co...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I need help?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 19 2017 at 17:55 by Nightowl13 RESPONDENTS: 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 19 2017 at 23:07

Hello. This is the first time i post on a forum but i guess i'm kind of desperate. I'm only 18 but all of my life i have been a little hostile with mt feelings... Not in a bad way, more like a puppy protecting its toys. Since i was in the 5th grade i felt different, my friends stopped talking to me because i was rude (Apparently in a boyish way) and didn't really care about ot...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWill I ruin fiance's life marrying him when I have depression?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 19 2017 at 07:50 by Berna RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Ashit Raja LAST POST: Jun 20 2017 at 06:58

In general I would like to know what people have experienced when they married a person who is depressed. We are both 26 and have been engaged for about 6 months and dated about a year and a half before that. Quick few details: He knows I have depression and knew before proposing to me. He is incredibly athletic doing Triathlons and is very healthy all around- I am not the slightest bit athletic o...

Crime advice forum category advice forum categoryParanoia please help me
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 19 2017 at 00:17 by PapiChulo999 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Altreal LAST POST: Jun 19 2017 at 17:51

Hello Everyone, im in need for some help, i used to be a criminal but i stopped 1 year ago and i have these 'issues' with paranoia or maybe its PTSD idk. i can walk to the store and suddenly i spot a suspicious car and im telling myself in my head 'they are your enemies from the past and they are here to kill you so i always like run around and try to outsmart the car even tho its p...