Greetings everyone, I've been with my current wife for almost 25 years. Our relationship has always been rocky. I can say I was genuinely in love for only a week and have felt a huge weight of guilt ever since. From my experience, she's always been melancholy sort of person and has passive aggressively tried to guilt me to into loving her by feeling sorry for her. She's alway...
Hello! My problem is that i am studying something i don't like at all. I am studying accounting and finance and i find it really hard and apart from that, every time I'm studying I'm becoming miserable and it makes me think "what am i doing?? I dont CARE". I ended up here cause i was a very good student in high school and that is the best department to be (according to my...
I am 28 years old and have been with my partner for almost 3 years ago. He has 2 daughters from a previous marriage, whom I have known about since the beginning. Although this is difficult for me, we see them every other weekend and I am adjusting well to my role in the relationship. Last summer, my partner told me that he had another child, a son, who was about 2 years old at the time (wou...
I split with my partner in while tired and drunk and on meds I emailed him some pictures, nothing rude but they accidently went through my work email, I was not at work I was at home but work have found out and I am facing a deciplinary maybe even the sack because they believe I was at work and downloaded pics to work computer I have proof I was at home but now they say it doesn't matter I...
im with an amazing guy for almost a year...when we got together he told me about his past (With women) I aaccepted everything. Im 19 and only had one sexual partner before him, hes 23 and I dont even know whaat his 'body count' is when it comes to women. i never cared. it never bothered me before..until recently. For a few weeks now his past is torturing me. we used to have a spot on a...
how do i start a conversation that i dont want to have? My boyfriend has previously been caught watching porn on his phone, after an argument about it he promised not to watch it again... (this wwas last month) i deleted his history on google and last night found other links to porn sites again. We were in bed but he had to leave for a little time and then i found it, when he came back i couldn...
So, where i live there's a stray cat that has 3 or 4 kittens. my mom is trying to bring them in when we already have 6 cats of our own. she did this a few months ago, they had fleas, worms, and who knows what else. but those were just kittens, this is a full grown cat and her babies. my mom won't leave it alone and I've told her not to bring them in but she plans to do it anyways. a...
After a great vacation approx 6 weeks ago with my family and no cell service we got back home and my husbands mood shifted completely. He is attached to his phone 24/7. Grumpy and short with me and the kids, who he only sees for an hour a day. He makes me feel like I don't do anything right and questions how I do everything. I try and tell him how he making me feel, he either doesn't...
I have started seeing a long time friend about a month ago. Now this guy and I were extremely close, stay up all night talking, no topic of limits close. I have honestly never felt this way about a guy before, and I believe, at least I hope, his feelings are in the same ball park. Both of us are extremely guarded and have never been in a serous relationship, despite being in our mid to late 20...
i have a close fried and i am in deeply in love with her .I want to do so much with her .I truly love her but she has a boyfriend but he is only there for lust.I dont know what to do i feel like crying can u help me out plz. The main question is should i distance myself?...
Hi all so i went to a club with my new boyfriend actually he s not really my boyfriend but we kiss and hold hands so a guy friend asked me to dance with him on the dancefloor and my bf was fine with it. That guy kissed me and i was dizzy i didnlt back off and my boyfriend made a a huge scandal and now he 's blocked me on everything i can't contact him i wrote him a letter but i t hasn...
Ok, here goes. I'm bipolar which is seriously not fun. I am a single parent with 4 children and their mother left 7 years ago when the youngest was 6 months old. I have no life and am so lonely that I want to die most of the time. My looks are not to my advantage, I don't drive, I'm signed off work and understandably, women are not embracing me and my situation. But I hate being alo...
So i realy liked this girl, and she also thought i was cool too, but... i was afraid of telling her i loved her till she left for college in some city. And thats when i started tecting her, and just a few weeks, a told her how i felt about her and she shot me down, but she was moslty disappointed why i didnt tell her in person....
This is the day I am starting my new life. I have to make move but it is as hard as always. I see everyone as perfect while I just struggle and insult myself. I have been going through this since my childhood, I don't know what triggered this. I overcame it for a while but it has come back again. I used to be scared of getting into bus alone. It is not like same. I have become normal. Though ...
Hi I'm hayley, I'm 23 years old and I am an only child that grew up with a single mom. For 5 years I have been friends with this guy we will call him mike. He actually grew up close to me and we shared the same bus stop since we were 12. However I did not speak to him until I was 18 which is when we formed a friendship. Initially I met him through my close girlfriend Jennifer. Mi...
I was a single mom. raised a beautiful daughter. we were two peas in a pod. moved to her new town, help with all her pregnancy/ help with her five kids under 7 daily. 3 months ago was told no longer needed and stay away from her and the kids. no contact since. I'm broken hearted and confused. all I do is cry. I miss my grsndbabies. now in this town with no family or friend. having health issu...
My BF is 44 years old (been dating 15 months) and still likes to go to clubs. I do not care for clubs and he knows I do no want him in one. I think once you reach 30+ you should be acting like an adult and not a college age kid. We had a discussion when he went the first time and he knew it hurt me. He went again and after I became more upset he promised he wouldn't do it again. The third tim...
I have a question about something that has been disturbing me for a long time : What does it mean if your husband tells a female who happens to be a colleague that he is loyal in every way? Leading up to this, he said that she treats him as though she just met him in the street and that he finds this demoralising and then,he said that he was a crazy human being who was loyal in every way. Please...
I have returned to my home town after 15 years of being away. I have 2 daughters aged 12 and 16. My relationship broke down after a 5 years of being together. I divorced 6 years ago after my marriage broke down with my previous relationship. It's been hell for many years as the father of my children refused to see the girls some 3 years ago! I struggled without family support for many years h...